how can i tell if a relationship is going to work?

Question

i love her with all my heart and sometimes i think that she is hideing something and dosent love me as much

Answer 1

u can tell if the girl is being nice, respectful, and is spending time with u. if she isn't there is something wrong.

Answer 2

You can't. It takes work on both sides. You have to have openess and honesty, trust and committment.

If you think she is hiding something already, you need to be open with her and ask her straight out and ask that she be honest with you. Tell her just exactly how much you love her when you do, so that she knows she can trust in confiding in you.

Then when she does confide in you, be a good listener, be non judgemental and work through it together.

Even if you are not married, I love this poem because it's words mean alot.

I didn't marry you because you were perfect.

I married you because I loved you.

I married you because you gave me a promise.

That promise made up for your faults.

And the promise I gave you made up for mine.

Two imperfect people got married and it was the promise that made the marriage.

Everyone has a past, it's what you learn from that past that makes your future. And the best things in life are not what you are taught, but what you learn on your own. And when you have someone to share that with...you learn together, it makes for a much brighter future!

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Look if she is faithful to you and you are to her...then its fine..but u cant really tell if a relationship will work out because some people are seasonal people and others lifelong people..make sure you dont get them confused...but i mean if ya'll relationship has peace in it then you should be fine...if you think she is hiding something then just ask her face-to-face..dont be afraid to cause then your going to be having negative thoughts about her and it might not even be anything...so be confident in yourself...if you really love her and her the same then she will understand and respect that you asked and know that you really care about her..Good Luck..Best of Wishes

Answer 4

It is far better for a man to love a women more. When a women is truly in love, her boyfriend is more like a friend. If she loves to hang out with you, have a good time, laughs a lot with you and does somethings you like to do, then your girlfriend is in love with you. Don't let sex come between you. Always tell her its not the sex, its your friendship that means more to you, than anything else. And above all talk and support her.

Answer 5

You can no more tell if a relationship is going to work than you can predict any future event. In other words, not at all. If you feel she's withholding and doesnt feel the same way about you, you're probably right.

Answer 6

Ask her why she does things the way she does. And how come she act like that on certain occasions. BUT dont act like your interrogating her. Approach with a sort of childlike curiosity.

Answer 7

Just talk to her! Communication is the main key in a relationship.

Answer 8

Thats difficult. But one thing for sure, make sure you are happy before u get into a relationship. Never enter one to find happiness or allow one to determine how happy you are or become

Answer 9

when u just feel that she is hiding and cannot make out.. it means that you need to get closer to her. when you love a person you need not have such feelings. you would come to know immediately what goes on in her mind.

Answer 10

u cant tell. u gotta just let the days go by and u will see whats going on. if u think that way y dont u just talk 2 her and see whats up.

Answer 11

Listen to your instincts. If you think that way a LOT about her, it probably won't work out. You'll get fed up with it and call it quits.