Why women preffer to have a man who likes kids than a man that like to have a wife business partner ?

Question

Sometimes I always receive the " only if you like kids " thing. But well why then fight for women rights to be professionals and be businesswomen and all that " crap" if the man that estimates more the business skill and intelligence than kid production get rejected for that issue ?

Is totally opposite the tendency. Fighting for making a difference but meaning to continue the same.

The idea is not becoming a dad or have kids, the business does not give time for those distractions.

Bob, Indeed before I worked for Government in Human Services and knew a friend in California that his neighboor had 6 kids, and lived from that. It is really a business for some ladies.

recomio:
Nah, I just finished my relation because I was looking more a business partner besides couple. not kids in the plan, so I think there is no more to do about it and just move on.

Answer 1

Actually, back in the day, you needed a man with more business-like qualities. After all, he was going to go out, and win the bread for the table. He didn't have to be good with kids, because the kids would be her responsibility. Now that she can go out and earn an income, and the man can help out with the kids, it becomes important to note: Yes, you have to be good with kids. Just in case you didn't know it, you will be expected to participate in parental duties if you marry and become a dad.

If you mean to ask why do women still produce children, it's for the same reason that some men still produce children, and you can't tell me that all of the children in the world come from men that didn't want children. It's an instinctual drive to want to pass on your genetics to a subsequent generation, and this drive exists in both men and women. A socio-political movement to gain "equitable" rights won't erase all of that.

To answer your additional details, you say that you only sometimes get the women that want to have kids, but not all of the time. If that's the case, and you don't want to have kids, then it's simple really... Keep looking until you find a woman that does not want to have kids, too. This is an important issue, so I would consider it as a basis for accepting or rejecting someone - do you want kids? If they say yes, move on, and if they say no, give them further consideration.

The reason it's used as a basis for accepting or rejecting someone is because those people are not looking for a one-night stand, but a long-term relationship, and the issue of whether or not you're going to have kids is just as important as your career. After all, if it weren't important at all, and you don't think you should get rejected for it, why wouldn't you be willing to just have kids then? The reason you are adamant about not having kids is because you recognize that it's an important decision in one's life, something worth being adamant about it.

Answer 2

I am a women and even I believe a lot of women do take advantage of wellfare, childsupport..ect...I actually know a lot of women who do. I have some guy friends who are so blind to see that the women in their lives are just using them. On of my friends is worth millions, and his ex wife who was trailer trash when he met her had his child then emptied whas she thought was all of his money and left him. He had her sign a prenup so she did that instead. After they divorced for two years, she took him to court again when she ran out of money to try and fight the prenup. Now she has lost that battle and threatens to keep his son away unless he gives her money. They are now in a custody battle. He also has a new gf who has two kids of her own who is also a gold digger. He moved her in after 3 weeks, now she wants to have his baby. This same exact thing happened to his co-worker who is also my friend too. Anyway, some women are out to get you for all you got, but some women are truly honest and really do love you. Just dont piss her off, she might trick you into the same senario I just wrote of. good luck to all you men in finding the right women.

Answer 3

Do you have any idea how many womany "enjoy" living off of Child Support, Allamony and Welfare, after they take half of Daddy's assets ... without a commitment with a man? That IS their business!