I want to be a father, but I am gay. How do I go about this???

Answer 1

You're gay ~ which is, by definition, a non-breeder. Get over it.

Answer 2

The kid needs a mother. Remember, when you have a child you're concern should be about the best interests of the child, not you're interest in having a child.
I'm just thinking if you have a kid without a mother, the kid is going to grow up with a huge hole inside where a relationship with a woman that loves him/her unconditionally is supposed to be. A man, gay or straight, can't come close to replacing that.
Get a dog or a cat.

Answer 3

Depends on your cash flow...sad huh?

$$$$ Find a surrogate and pay to have her inseminated and produce
$$$ Adopt a child-more chances out of country
$$ Find a single friend who wants a child and make an arrangement
$ Get involved with a man who has children

My grandmother used to say, "There is nothing sadder than an unwanted child or animal." So you could volunteer at Big Bro/Sis or take in foster children.

Good luck.

Answer 4

If you have the desire and ability to be a foster parent, it is a great way to meet a child and even have the opportunity to know them for a while before you decide to adopt.

Although many of the foster children are older, I personally adopted two girls, one I had since her birth.

If you are a stable person, have lived a decent life, have no criminal background of concern, you may be a candidate for consideration regardless of your sexual orientation.

Depending on what state your are in, the rules may vary, but I still believe more parents should work towards getting children out of the foster care system and into 'permanent' homes.....

Good Luck.

Answer 5

Stop being so selfish. You are not in a position to have a child. The kid will lead an awful life because you made a bad choice. The problem with society is that they believe they can have everything they want. Sometimes it is best to sacrifice. We do not need anymore messed up kids that become adults. Also, what example will you be setting???

Answer 6

Find a surrogant mother. Or maybe ask a friend to maybe help you. A friend is always better cause you know them. Or maybe adopt. I know there are alot of peopl who have babies that are not fit to be parents, or the just want to give it up for adoption cause they are too young or not ready. But anyways, good luck, cause I am really looking forward to having a baby soon.

Answer 7

Adoption is a viable option in most states. Actually, there are numerous studies that show children raised in a same-sex household are just as well off, if not better adjusted, than those from the traditional male-female parenting.

Answer 8

Find a woman you like very well and that she also maybe gay or she doesnt want a relationship - and then have a baby together. You would obviously need to know this person well!

Answer 9

VAMPGIRL AND FLOSSIEMARTIN.. go get fuc***,
That's not fair that a man, Who is gay, cannot have children, How is it fair,?
Is that the same for a wife that leaves her husband, takes the kid's and has lesbian relation's.. Should she not be able to have kid's.. I think that's a really prejudice comment, If you have sh*t like that to say, Don't say it at all.. Obvioulsy this guy is asking a question that is personal to him ,and he wants to have advise, Stupid B*itches like you shouldn't have kid's, if you think you have the right to say gay's can't..

I wish you all the best,
I hope you have beautiful children, you deserve it.. xxx

Answer 10

Adopt a child...I read in a magazine about 2 gay dudes that were together adopting a little girl and she was perfectly happy with it.

Answer 11

I think a surogate mother is the best option for you, or adopting a child who is in need. There are lots of children who would be lucky to have you as a father.

And as for all the people on here who are ignorant to your situation, I've taken the liberty of reporting everyone before me.