I was the best mate at my friends wedding a few years ago, I have known him for 8 years and we are good mates.
About 3 months after he was married, he had a fling with a girl that I worked with. He told me about the affair & to be honest I would have rather not known.
To this day I have not told his wife, who I have also known for around 8 years. The reason why I did not tell her is because I did not want to be the one to have to tell her & ruin her marriage so soon after she got married.
He has put me in a very difficult situation, one which I had no choice in. I have told him that if it ever does come out & if he dragged me into it, our friendship would be over, as I dont need friends like that.
Do you think I did the right thing not telling his wife about it? Or should I have told her ?
Another reason why I did not tell her is because a lot of people would have got hurt. i.e her parents, brothers, sisters, etc, etc. (around 15 people in all)
2006-08-03
09:52:54
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boaqdhyaj hampanirekyui
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