2006-08-03 09:56:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Using is a two way street, sure he sees the sex and anal is not the issue.
It's likely you see this as a something more, he sees your orifices as a place to park his dick for a period. You see this as a way to satisfy him and keep him around awhile.
Fact is both are true.
I'd recommend getting tested for STD's after you or he dump the other because in all likelihood some one is transmitting something.
2006-08-03 10:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
have you talked to him since? that would determine if he "used" you or not. If the communication was immediately cut off or drastically cut you may have been used BUT If it is as normal as ever then.....
anal sex for the first time is, WOW, allot and even though he "insisted" you still had the right to say you were not ready so....
maybe he is more than you can handle sexually right now and if this is the case then you should consider ending it quickly
It is nothing to be ashamed of BUT it could be allot of emotional pain in the long run.
2006-08-03 10:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel used? Are still seeing him after this? Or has your feelings changed towards him since sleeping with him.
I would only have anal sex in a long term relationship but that my opinion.
2006-08-03 10:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can answer that but you. Do you feel like you were used? Did you enjoy it? Were you hoping for a real realationship and did he deliver? These are the type of questions you need to ask yourself. They should you to reach an answer the question that has been troubling you.
2006-08-03 10:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Palmdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
errr yes he did. I would step very carefully with a lady on the first time and wouldn't insist she did anything that she didn't want to - it would be just the start of a relationship (I would hope).
Either this or this is how he gets his real kicks but it sounds dangerous to me
2006-08-03 10:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by 1919 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...He sounds like a real loser!Don't ever let some jerk use you like that,learn from your experience and move on!Also hope he used a condom..std"s are easier to get through anal sex!
2006-08-03 10:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you like it? If you gave him the butt your first time, probably so. But yes, he definitely used you and is telling all of his friends how good that butt was. His friends will probably hit on you next time they see you, in hopes of getting that butt. He is probably putting them up to it to get you off his back. Men are pigs. Be a lesbian.
2006-08-03 10:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by brianbaldwin03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all after three weeks it seems he is only interested in ur body anyway and if he wants to have anal sex u need check him out cause he might be gay
2006-08-03 10:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used your a$$, this was sex not an act of love....after 3 weeks and it's all good with you...no he didn't use you...he wanted what he wanted and you gave it up...simple as that.
2006-08-03 10:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman have vaginas, men want the vagina, which means you say what goes. Now either thats what you wanted or yes you let him take advantage of you. You be the judge.
2006-08-03 10:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ask the Chef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋