okay so there is this girl that i've hella liked for soo long and she is on vacation now but before she left she told me she liked me and we kissed and she left then we've been talking over the phone and shes saying how she likes all these other guys. its killing me listening to this but i dont know whether to tell her how im feeling or not. should i not tell her and wait for the right time for us to be together?
2006-08-03 10:04:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah btw she had a bf in her vacation spot and he broke up with her. thanks everyone for helping but im guessing this is a lost cause...?
2006-08-03 15:14:08 · update #1
she is trying to see if you'll be jealous. Don't bit.. Ignor it. Go about life as she doesn't exist.
2006-08-03 10:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be upfront with her but don't be too explicit because girls don't like it when it is too easy so be cool with her and her things but tell her that you feel the same way toward her and what should you guys do about it
Just tell her that maybe you guys should try being together for a while and see how it goes
if for some reason that doesn't work
insist a couple of times not so close together to each other and remail her friend then ask her just to at least give it a try and I guarantee you she will do it and forget about everyone else
If not then she really just doesn't know what she wants and if that is the case then you shouldn't get in that mess but just stay friends
2006-08-03 17:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act hard. Love is a game, and she's tricking you. If she says that she has seen other guys, tell her that u expect her to be smart enough to choose, since your clearly the best option. Dont call her too much, or she ll smell your weakness. When she's talking with you, be funny, try to make her spend a nice time on the phone. She'll come back right to you, i promise
2006-08-03 17:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be together if you dont tell her. My friend liked someone for 3 years and she never told him then on a random day she found out he moved to tennesse and we live in Texas. Well on day she finally told him that she liked him and he told her he like her to but of course they could never be with each other because they were states away. Dont wait for the right moment because there wil never be a right moment until u are with her.
2006-08-03 17:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Megan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just trying to see how you react. I'm sure she's not as dumb as to tell you she likes you but tell you about these other guys. Since you haven't said anything, she just wants to know if you care. Always be honest about your feelings, tell her how you feel about her and everything should be fine. If its killing you to hear these things you obviously like her a lot, she has a right to know. What do you have to lose?
2006-08-03 17:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably a ho if she's telling you she likes other guys after kissing you. What are you in, 8th grade, probably. Mind games - that's all it is. Either tell her now or wait for some other dude to hit that. It's not gonna last anyways, the b itch is probably crazy. Most women are.
2006-08-03 17:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by brianbaldwin03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so she doesnt or does know you like her?
i'll help if you need more...snickerbug0484@yahoo.com
but you should wait till she comes back, she might be playin' wit you to see how you react ...all girls do this at some time..
you should make her WANT you...wait till you know for sure she cant think of anything but you. but she wont make the first move so when you feel the time is right go ahead and do what you need to, tell her, take her to some place private to tell her ...hold her and if her reaction is good, kiss, if not...then i dunno, but most likely she seems like she's into you....
2006-08-03 17:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what your telling me, that you have had feelings for her for a while and that when you 2 were at the airport you felt something great and it hurts you to hear what she is saying about all of these other guys.
2006-08-03 17:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♪♫jessy♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her. Even if you think its not the right time it could be. I mean if you don't tell her its almost like her not liking you back because either way your not with her. Just go for it and pray for the best. Good luck.
2006-08-03 17:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by italian_swim_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, Just act as if U cant be Bothered.. Gals do dese alot, she is tryin 2 show U dat she doesnt really need U but she does... Just act as if U dont care, she will get jealous by u doin dat...
2006-08-03 17:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by lloysbanks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!! i think that she should know what she is making you feel and thats the best thing that you could do because if you dont tell her then shes might never know and she is hurting you so i would do that!
2006-08-03 17:09:43 · answer #11 · answered by valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋