How many of you girls have faked? Why did you? If you never have, why not? Do you think its more loving to be honest and help him actually get you there....or it somehow is better to build his ego (let alone your not getting pleased) by faking? If you fake do you think its lieing? If you fake and your BF/Husband found out, how do you think he'd feel? if you say he would hate it...then why do you do it saying its good for him?
2006-08-03 09:52:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just my opinion..but if i was having sex and married..i would MUCH rather know i didnt give her a orgasm, then have my wife fake it. Ya i would be like "well what didnt i do" and maybe feel ..not great...but then id remember that girls enjoy sex even without orgasming(not all i know) and its not all pleasure for them..its a connection mentally and with love along with physically. But of course id want to know how to change it so i could give my wife one
2006-08-03 10:02:04 · update #1
i've never faked an orgasm, it's dishonest and i'd be the one losing out in the end... the best thing to do is to show your partner what plaeses you, that way you are both satified and no one'd ego gets hurt if the "faking" gets brough to their attention
2006-08-03 09:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See some guys is make women think that they are the best in bed, so when it is actually time to have sex and they put these expectations into the women's head it really isnt wat the women expected so she has to fake just to make him think that he is right. And the only way a women would actually tell a man if he is bad is if he cheats or do something really bad to her, then she would say she was faking all the long.
2006-08-03 17:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the only time i've ever faked is if i came and couldn't come again but he still didn't come yet. then i kinda fake it until he's done. its usually not more than 10 seconds though, cause my orgasms usually last a while, but sometimes he just isn't done by then.
so i don't see it as really faking. i always make sure i come.
2006-08-03 16:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Aleks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... of course at some point I'm sure we've all faked occassionally. I can remember doing it when I've been tired... and I don't want to hurt his feelings by thinking that he's failed to please me in some way.... it's just easier than having the spanish inquisition afterward... "what was wrong with me" "what wasn't I doing right" ......
2006-08-03 16:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by dirtyminx82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never faked it. I don't even think I could. My husband definitely knows when he is pleasing me!
2006-08-03 16:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont fake... you know why? cause then he'll never understand hes not doing it right. He must learn! Although I dont have that problem.Thanks GOd
2006-08-03 16:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Capricorn82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAAAAANNNN!!!! If he's not doing it right.... might as well fake it and have him get the foqq off....lol
2006-08-03 16:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did it several times.
i was very tired frm work & my bf wants to have sex with me. i know i wont finish but i gave him a mild blowing sex...he knows taht i used to do that but he's ok with it. i want my man to be happy & satisfied with me.
2006-08-03 16:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋