Other - Family & Relationships - 16 November 2007

I am a 24 year old guy, working for some MNC in my hometown.I am in relation with a girl. We both desire to marry in near future.She is also working for some MNC in some other far away city.Unfortunately we both belong to different caste.Our parents are opposing our decision.However we both have decided to marry & live together in any circumstances.So I want to get transferred to the city where she is working.My position (professionally) in the current location reached a height & will grow more.If I get transfer it could help me reach more & more heights with learning more new things including independency. My girl also wants me to locate myself to the new city but my parents do not wanted the change in any condition.Also the new city is more expensive.What shud I do? Shud I reach to my love or should I do what my parents want. I want to gain all with great new hopes attached. Rate the priorities. PLEASE HELP PLEASE HELP

2007-11-16 03:07:34 · 16 answers · asked by niki 1

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now...
we both love each other so much,also we believe we were made for each other.
but the problem's that whenever he gets upset or angry,he doesn't treat me well.
few days ago,we were talkin when suddenly he said that I should watch my wordz while talkin to him when I actually didn't say anything wrong,so he went crazy and left just like that.and I kept calling him several times to talk about it and fix things but he refused to answer me.
till I started to feel humiliated from his actions and thinkin now about breakin up with him as long as he's not respectin me.
what should I do?

2007-11-16 02:54:50 · 14 answers · asked by Pinka 3

2007-11-16 01:25:21 · 9 answers · asked by K Baby 1

i have been engaged for about 3-4 months , both of us are too busy working during the day , however , we only have the weekends , the thing is , he has been ditching me in the last 3-4 weeks , he had to travell , last week he had to go over his cousins and this weekend we were soppuse to go to a show together , took me a day to get ready , and when the time came he had to go to beach with one of his friends who just came from another country
i have been moaning and complaining about this , he doesnt seem to care ( well he does bring me reasons and tries to make me calm down ) but i hate it how he doesnt care about spending time with me , i can see how happy he is with his friends and how depressed he is around me , i dont know what should i do to show him that he should care about me too that he should be a little bit more considerate about going out with me ?!

2007-11-16 00:11:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous