I used to always be the type of person that never spoke up or who wouldn't say anything when something was wrong or not. But it's been a while since many of my friends have pointed out, that it would do me alot good to be more outspoken for my ownself. They're right. It's helped me feel more in control in some levels. The thing is it seems impossible sometimes. It's like if I were to say something, they'd go ballistic, mad or simply a little negative reaction. With some people, depending on situations, it's fine. With others, it feels like I have to dis-adjust. I don't see why. I'm not too direct and I still keep alot of things to myself. But it feels like being honest creates arguments & misunderstandings. I can't deal with that. I don't like being mad or seeing my friends angry...It makes me feel all bad inside. I'm not the type of person to hold a grudge either. All I want from this honesty thing is for both people to be happy, under the compromises we'd make. So how does it work?
2006-08-02
15:22:02
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