any thing you got?
2006-08-02 15:58:01 · 39 answers · asked by alyssa y.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be ashamed that you gave him the note in the first place. Shame shame.
2006-08-02 15:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lay off of her boyfriend. He wasn't meant for you at the moment. By the simple fact that he showed her it shows that he's a good guy who doesn't want to hurt her, and that he doesn't like you. That's the first thing. Realize that it's not your fault that you like him, but that he's not meant for you.
Secondly, you should apologize to your friend. Be understanding. How would you feel if she had done the same thing? Explain to her your feelings, and then make it clear that you aren't going to try anything anymore. Also, let her know that you thought about it, and belatedly realized how she must feel. Let her know that you know what you did is wrong. Also, realize that she has every right to be angry. After all, wouldn't you be?
You should never let a boy get between you and your friend. And you should never go after a taken man. That'll only end in sorrow as you have no doubt learned.
Thirdly, take something away from this experience. Learn a lesson. That way you will remember next time you think you want to do that.
Lastly, remember that the right guy is out there for you and that your friend's boyfriend is not for you. There are other guys out there, and you don't have to settle on one yet. ^_^
Good luck! ^_^
2006-08-02 20:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by WinterRhya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was fuc king stupid. Her boyfriend done the right thing by showing her the note. Make some type of an effort to find your own boyfriend instead of trying for convenience. Just because someone is there or easy does not mean he is yours for the taking. You proberly lost your friend, her trust anyway... So many people cause problems for themselves then ask people to help them. What ever happened to common since? Girl, just find your own boy and go on with your life cause the damage is already done with you and her relationship. Maybe that is the purpose for wedding rings, to let others know that this person is off limits for sex or intimate relationship with others. Maybe they need rings for anyone that has a boyfriend or girlfriend.
2006-08-02 16:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you went against the girl code by doing that in the first place and I wouldn't be surprised if your BF doesn't speak to you anymore. I would just give her some time to calm down, and when you feel she has...since she's your best friend you know her better than we do... try to explain the situation and tell her how sorry you are for doing it. If your friendship is strong she should understand...if not...I don't know what to say...
2006-08-02 16:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by luvhurts004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your friend that you can't help how you feel... but what were you trying to achieve by giving him the note anyway? If he broke it off with her would you seriously jeapordise your friendship for something that might not even last 5 minutes anyway? I think you should really think about this... are you willing to give up your friendship to be with this guy? He must love your friend to come clean and tell her the truth, either that or he likes causing trouble...
2006-08-02 16:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really cared about your friend you would have told her how you felt instead of going behind her back and telling him. By doing that you are making yourself look guilty of trying to take her man. All you can do is apologize, tell her you didn't want to take her man, and that you only told him to get those feelings off your chest. You can tell her you didn't want to tell her because you don't want her to be upset like she is now. Honestly though, u really didn't have a good reason for telling him unless you were trying to start something with him. Maybe you need to take a step back look at the friendship, it sounds to me like your not a good friend to her, and that you really don't want to be a good friend to her. Oh and in case you didn't know there are a few unspoken rules in life as follows: 1)DON'T DATE YOUR FRIENDS MAN OR EX. 2) Don't' date someone your friend wants to date 3)don't date your friends 4)don't date your friends siblings. 5) Do find someone special who loves you, and who when you hold them makes you feel like your at home. 6) Do talk to your friends they are your support network, don't let guys get in the way. Keep those rules in mind and if you care bout your friend beg forgiveness, cuz u were wrong.
2006-08-02 16:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by TR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame her. You was wrong, how dare you give her boyfriend a note stating that you like him and then told him not show it to her. If you don't know the girlfriend's rule"NEVER MESS WITH YOUR FRIENDS BOYFRIEND OR EX BOYFRIEND". Okay you he think he is cutie but keep that to yourself. How would you like it if she would have done that to you? You will HATE her too. Maybe try talking to her a let her know what you did was wrong but do know that your friendship may not be the same again.
2006-08-02 16:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You clean up your life and get on with it. How could you do a thing like that? You're not a very good friend but he's a good boy friend. He did exactly what he should have done.
Learn a lesson from this and don't comit such a sleazy act again.
2006-08-02 16:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by nellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG why the h#ll would you do that! u deserve to lose your freind!!!! nevr do that! u deserve to lose that guy too! i think this is a great lesson 4 u. how could anyone evr do that and also somemore advice never post your own selfish problems on places like this u just get trashed by people with common sense.
btw i am not trying to be rude i am just being honest
2006-08-02 16:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by alias_babe_626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize for writing the note. Take responsibilty for thinking the guy would lie to your friend. You are not going to have their trust again for a long long time.
2006-08-02 16:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by art_tchr_phx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋