I'm 30 years old and within the past 3-4 years, I've gotten married and had a baby. Prior to this, I was relatively attractive. I had friends and family members compliment me all the time about how pretty I looked and I felt proud of that since I worked hard to look good. I had trendy clothes, great make-up, nice hair, and full of confidence. Now, I'm totally opposite. I've gained weight and feel unattractive. I wear clothes that people in their fifties probably wear and hide my large body behind big clothes. I miss feeling pretty and attractive. Its been years since I've felt that way. I'm not proud of how I look and notice myself not wanting to go out and meet with people (like by husbands' friends) because I feel so unattractive and ashamed of the way I am. Its not that I think I'm ugly. Its just that I don't think I look good. I look like a frumpy (spelling?) old lady. Have you felt or do you feel the same way? Thoughts? Experiences? Please share.
2007-08-19
20:29:30
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