My fiance and I have been together and lived together for 3 XMas's. This year, he went shopping last minute and bought me 3 things, all very little. I shopped over the course of the year, remembering things he wanted and asked for in conversation, and sneaking back and buying them. We don't even have a tree this year - he was too "tired" after work for 2 weeks to go with me and get one. I feel terrible for being upset about it, but Christmas used to be a big holiday for us, and now it feels like a bother for him. Christmas is my favorite time of year, for religious and family reasons, and I feel like he's being a scrooge with money, gifts and spirit. How would you approach this, now and next year?
2006-12-24
08:12:41
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Meggerz
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