Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - January 2007

I am attracted to girls but sometimes sexually attracted to them and i like guys alot... em i gay or bi???

2007-01-14 11:55:04 · 13 answers · asked by Jay! :D 3

I am a 21 year old gay male and as of the last two months I realized that I have very deep feelings for my coworker. I know he is straight because he dated and is still in love with another fellow female cowork who just happens to be a friend of mine as well. He’s a bit older at 29 and from another country, so as much as he understands me there is still a language barrier.

The situation is now I am finding it harder and harder to hide my feelings. We have been working together for five months and I never saw him like this….it just clicked with me one night and I was stunned. He is a very sweet, kind guy and very funny so he is easy to get along with. I find myself going overboard to help him with things, and be around him as much as I can.

The thing is two people I have spoke about him with told me they had the feeling he was gay or bi….I don’t see it and I since he makes it clear by the way he speaks about past girlfriends and knowing he dated my friend put the whole “is he gay” question out of my head.

The real thing I want to ask is, should I tell him? I think he knows, I have been told that it is very obvious. I just don’t want to ruin our friendship and freak him out. He was raised by his mother and sisters so that seemed to have given him a soft side but you never know how someone will take the news.

We did a “Secret Santa” this year at the job but I went head and got him a gift even though I didn’t pick his name out. He surprised me the night we were to give the gifts by telling me he got me something, but he wanted to know which one I wanted out of three calendars he had gotten (two for the person he had picked). Two of the three were those “sexy” firemen and cop ones and the other was just one of New York City. I think I had to have turned bright red and all I could do was smile, I had never discussed my sexual preference before with him so I was kind of excited yet freaked that he asked me. He told me to think about it and let him know…I never did and he didn’t bring it up again. He gave me the NY one and I was kind of glad. I was shocked that at the end of the night as we said our Christmas goodbyes I was the only one he gave a hug too around all of our fellow workers.

Two weeks later a few people from the crew went out after our shift and we all started to say goodbye and everyone started to hug. This time he seemed kind of freaked and gave me a half hearted one…

We had plans twice to hang out with his ex and both times she had to canceled. I would say “if you still want to do something even if she cant come let me know” and he never responded.

He sends me emails from his other job with a few words, but I look forward to them. It’s almost like he’s being nice to me because he knows how much I like him. Yet he always brings up how young I am. He is only 29 so I don’t know why he thinks its such a big age difference.

So what should I do, tell him and hope it doesn’t ruin our friendship? Or hide my feelings and go crazy. I just don’t want him to think that all the tings I do for him is out of lust, and that I just want more from him then his friendship

2007-01-14 11:46:52 · 13 answers · asked by james_dean_li 1

Everyone keeps on saying that in my school!!!! I cant ignore them and tell them if he is gay or not and then they will stop.Is he gay or not??? Please be honest.

2007-01-14 11:15:25 · 27 answers · asked by Coolness 1

my friend, who ive known for about 4 years, acts gay sometimes. i hope he is because i like him. for example, he plays with his penis and gets semi hard. one time he mooned me, and ran around in his boxers. do u think he is gay?

2007-01-14 11:09:57 · 20 answers · asked by yOYo 1

A choice or are you born with that tendency?
I have heard it both ways.

2007-01-14 10:59:51 · 19 answers · asked by Lauren. 4

he had ovarian cancer and over 20 doctors refused to treat him.
can't he sue?

2007-01-14 10:56:13 · 6 answers · asked by Nafertiti 2

I've heard this term a lot. People tell me that because I'm kinda into keeping in shape I've got a "gay" body. Gay guys have said this too. They say it has nothing to do with sex, simply the shape, waist size, etc. I live in Europe so I'm not too familiar with current terms / jargon in merit. Can someone clarify what a "gay body" is?

2007-01-14 10:55:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 10:43:42 · 7 answers · asked by cmerric 2

ok i'm a woman and want to hear what u think... i've heard construction workers, military men, truckers, and garbage men are the horniest men on the face of the planet. So to me it seems from personal experience here, ALL men are too horny for their own good. I'd say one guy has the same level of hormones as the next; do you agree or not. And if not should they be put into catagories because of their jobs?

2007-01-14 10:35:45 · 13 answers · asked by i hate undies! 4

I have a problem with people hating gay people. I don't respect gay peoples' values, morals, or beliefs, but unless I knew that person well enough, I wouldn't have any control over it. I don't think gays / lesbians should be able to get married, but I don't think they should be put down by straight people all the time. Even if you don't respect a person, you can act like it, even if, like me, you're Christian. Christians aren't supposed to, "embrace" gay people, but we're not supposed to respect them or put them down either. Get what I'm saying??? AGREE or DISAGREE?

2007-01-14 10:32:01 · 33 answers · asked by loverofmissy 1

2007-01-14 10:31:45 · 17 answers · asked by YoU kNoW yOu LoVe Me 1

I got my nose pierced on December 28. It is now Jan 14. I go back to school on Jan 16 and if I get caught with my nose stud I will have to change it to a clear one. Will my nose okay if I have to change it so early as long as I have the same guy who pierced my nose change my stud also? The guy who pierced it is 3rd in the nation so I trust him completley with my nose I just wanted to know from anyone who has any experience with nose studs to please help. Also I have never seen a clear stud but I know that places around me sell them. You cant even see them when there in right? I just want to make sure with a clear one i can wear it to school.
Please help!!!!!!

2007-01-14 10:08:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 09:57:21 · 5 answers · asked by Maria P 1

this is just curiosity because it seems to me that mostly only white girls or non-black girls make out with other girls 4 fun. i'm mixed (black, white) and bisexual.

2007-01-14 09:51:19 · 8 answers · asked by Megan. 1

I've heard jew girls mostly date pplz who believe in their religion and such u know what I mean. ONe thing is there a lesbian jewish girl or Bi?? IF there is what are there policy about dating?????

2007-01-14 09:48:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

If it's a guy, I'm okay with them being bi, but if it's a girl, I think it's kind of creepy

2007-01-14 09:31:07 · 18 answers · asked by Miranda G 1

what sort of person do you think i am from questions and answers/profiles on here or are you too proud to look?

2007-01-14 09:23:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since we defined marriage according to the bible, why not do the same for other biblical concepts?
Do I have the logic right?

2007-01-14 09:22:19 · 6 answers · asked by God 6

2007-01-14 09:07:02 · 14 answers · asked by yo_soy_mestizo 1

how can tell if a friend is lesbian or bi. what signs should you look out for?

2007-01-14 08:57:11 · 6 answers · asked by dudett 1

How can u create cleavage without buying breastforms.

2007-01-14 08:54:37 · 19 answers · asked by coolcat70444 1

I am a Female to Male. I don't want my breasts. I was wondering if it'd be possible to donate my breasts to a MTF or Girl who is currently small and would like to enhance their chest. Possibly give my breasts to a Breast cancer patient.
I ask because medical science does some fairly extreme things, such as a facial transplant. They even have nanosurgical procedures these days to splice and rejoin nerves and mircoscopic veins and arteries.
In fact I would go as far to ask if there is an MTF out there that would want ALL Of my female Sex organs in exchange for his male organs including his prostate gland. Through careful, I'm sure painful and Incredible lengthy surgery. Not to mention some DNA Reassignment (The removal of his sperm and my eggs. Extracting the DNA and exchanging it.)
Most would think this is wishful thinking. Is there someone out there who shares this vision and is there a doctor willing to take the chance on a possibly successful yet dangerous medical breakthrough

2007-01-14 08:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by Crisodwolf 2

2007-01-14 08:38:31 · 11 answers · asked by sagoo k 1

if you're inlove with your bestfriend, would you tell him? if yes, how? if no, why?

2007-01-14 08:38:10 · 6 answers · asked by yhyhyhh 1

i know it's not a transvestite and not quite a cross dresser either as they still look more like men!

2007-01-14 08:19:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

marches in every state or county or is there just one a year? I would like to take part in one but I haven't heard of any coming up in Florida. Maybe it's called something else like rainbow day or something. I would just like to somehow get involved. Does anyone know how?

2007-01-14 07:58:27 · 4 answers · asked by gitsliveon24 5

2007-01-14 07:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by danlehner29 2

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2007-01-14 06:57:02 · 29 answers · asked by Jack 1

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2007-01-14 06:22:41 · 28 answers · asked by Jack 1

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2007-01-14 06:22:04 · 10 answers · asked by Jack 1