Social Science - 10 August 2007

2007-08-10 02:39:37 · 56 answers · asked by 12345 3 in Sociology

God Bless You and America

2007-08-10 02:32:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sociology

I am a Magician's Assisstant (it's fun), and I am a size 4-6, 5 foot 7. However, he wants me to be rail thin, and everytime he sees me, his first comment is, oh my god, your'e getting fat, or have you gained weight??? In today's society I know it is expected to be a size 2 or 0. However, I am not, and I don't want to be.

This is somthing I enjoy doing, and is helping me with theatre in general. How do I tell him professionally that his remarks hurt me and if they don't stop, he won't have an assisstant?

PS- he's fat

2007-08-10 02:26:19 · 9 answers · asked by Kelsey Renee 2 in Psychology

What Is A Troll?
Why do trolls do it?
Recognizing trolls
Who is at risk?
When should you be concerned?
Eradication


An Introduction To Dross
The object of this page is to bring together a definitive document to cover the utter sadness of the Internet troll. Usually, a troll is nothing more than a passing nuisance, but, as this page will show, they can be a worry (stalkers). However, it is almost invariably an inadequate individual who can be safely ignored.

This page will define the activity, and help with early recognition; once acknowledged, trolls can take up residence, and, like athlete's foot, can be difficult to shift. And when you've finished here, I recommend this fairly comprehensive guide to managing sad thirteen year olds loose on Mom's computer.

What Is A Troll?
The term derives from "trolling", a style of fishing which involves trailing bait through a likely spot hoping for a bite. The troll posts a message, often in response to an honest question, that is intended to upset, disrupt or simply insult the group.

Usually, it will fail, as the troll rarely bothers to match the tone or style of the group, and usually its ignorance shows.

Why do trolls do it?
I believe that most trolls are sad people, living their lonely lives vicariously through those they see as strong and successful.

Disrupting a stable newsgroup gives the illusion of power, just as for a few, stalking a strong person allows them to think they are strong, too.

For trolls, any response is 'recognition'; they are unable to distinguish between irritation and admiration; their ego grows directly in proportion to the response, regardless of the form or content of that response.

Trolls, rather surprisingly, dispute this, claiming that it's a game or joke; this merely confirms the diagnosis; how sad do you have to be to find such mind-numbingly trivial timewasting to be funny?

Remember that trolls are cowards; they'll usually post just enough to get an argument going, then sit back and count the responses (Yes, that's what they do!).


How can troll posts be recognised?
No Imagination - Most are frighteningly obvious; sexist comments on nurses' groups, blasphemy on religious groups .. I kid you not.
Pedantic in the Extreme - Many trolls' preparation is so thorough, that while they waste time, they appear so ludicrous from the start that they elicit sympathetic mail - the danger is that once the group takes sides, the damage is done.
False Identity - Because they are cowards, trolls virtually never write over their own name, and often reveal their trolliness (and lack of imagination) in the chosen ID. As so many folk these days use false ID, this is not a strong indicator on its own!
Crossposting - Any post that is crossposted to several groups should be viewed as suspicious, particularly if unrelated or of opposing perspective. Why would someone do that?
Off-topic posting - Often genuine errors, but, if from an 'outsider' they deserve matter-of-fact response; if genuine, a brief apposite response is simply netiquette; if it's a troll post, you have denied it its reward.
Repetition of a question or statement is either a troll - or a pedant; either way, treatment as a troll is effective.
Missing The Point - Trolls rarely answer a direct question - they cannot, if asked to justify their twaddle - so they develop a fine line in missing the point.
Thick or Sad - Trolls are usually sad, lonely folk, with few social skills; they rarely make what most people would consider intelligent conversation. However, they frequently have an obsession with their IQ and feel the need to tell everyone. This is so frequent, that it is diagnostic! Somewhere on the web there must be an Intelligence Test for Trolls - rigged to always say "above 150"

Who is at risk?
Any newsgroup, bulletin board, forum or chatroom can attract trolls, but they don't have the brains to attack nuclear physicists, and they are drawn to the quick response where sex, religion and race are found; so politics is easy prey.

One troll famously tried to infiltrate a mensa group; the results read like 100 trolls and one regular, it didn't have a chance - but it was stupid enough to persist until removed.


When Should You Be Concerned?
Usually, no, though fractured funny bones and occasional waves of nausea have been reported.

When a troll become persistent and personal, you may need to consider the possibility that it has fermented into an Internet Stalker - equally pathetic, if not more so - but sometimes requiring weedkiller. Find Out More

Trolls - if they had brains, they just might be dangerous!

2007-08-10 01:41:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

Hi

Am 20 year girl , wake up everyday crying feel depressed, seek attention but I cant found =’( , I have a bf who’s far away 4 now after he was filling my life ,I want some1 give me attention but there is no1 , I feel lonely ,depreesed , am so ******, what can I do =( ??!

2007-08-10 01:09:21 · 3 answers · asked by ♫Donna♫ 2 in Psychology

for revenge like putting you're snotty hankie in your bosse's pocket.

2007-08-10 01:02:50 · 6 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Psychology

The real question I ask is: What is the pschological term, condition, that refers to when someone says "But you don't know how much I love you!" when you don't give them something they want from you?

Because they did'nt get a certain desired response/action from you. If you are in a relationship, engaged, and you spend a lot of time together, but then you want some time to yourself to occupy your hobby, read, think and pray, and/or etc., but they rebel and pout, and then say that you don't know how much they love you as they waited all day to see you, (no exact plans made), (you did'nt say you would), and because you won't offer your cam or view theirs because you are concentrating on something that it would interfere with. Let's say you are a writer. And can't write when always distracted, your time demanded, every day. But they love you so much, that you should.... ? Should what? Let them possess you? Attempt to own you? "Individual" and "freewill" no longer have meaning?

2007-08-10 00:28:41 · 15 answers · asked by SOULCRY 3 in Psychology