When I first started dating my boyfriend, he smoked. He decided to quit two weeks later, and didn't smoke for a few months. Then he moved in and quit his job and took 2 weeks to find another one. He started to get really stressed out and would sneak around behind my back to smoke (but I could always tell b/c I could smell it on his breath). Now, two months later, it is ruining our relationship. He knows I hate it, and don't like to kiss him when he smokes, but he can't keep from buying cigs when he gets "stressed out". I tell him stress will always be there and he says "i'm punishing myself i hate smoking". Yet, he still goes out and buys cigs. Every coulple days he'll try quitting and want me to be all supportive, but then gets stressed out, says that I am adding to his stress level and smokes anyways. Its pissing me off but i can't really say anything cause he doesn't do it around me.What to do?
2006-08-08
07:02:58
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