Other - Family & Relationships - 12 August 2007

I got involved with one of my old professors who is 30+ years older than me. I didnt know he was married, but ended it as soon as I found out. Now im left with the aftermath, and things are becoming very clear. I see him at school, and I feel so used/manipulated. Im almost unable to function. I dont know what to do, but I fear that he will do this to some other girl.

I feel very stronly that I need to let his wife know what is going on while he is at "work" so that it never happens again, and so that I can move on with peace in my mind. I already spoke to a counciler at the college and they told me there is nothing they can do about it since it was consenting and since i was not his student at the time.

Please help!! I really dont want this to happen to anyone else, but I know that it will if i dont do something to stop it. (and i know its happened before...he has a system down pat).

Do you think telling his wife is the right way to go, and if so...how?

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Ok this guy i like and he likes me. Whenever i ask him what he think we are he says we are more than friends. He says we are in middle of friendship and love. But then he says he loves me etc. I recently saw his dating ad on a website. I know he just recently created it on aug 7 and not yet logged on it. I am very much hurt by this.

Should I ask him about this or just stop talking to him or pretent like nothing happen what should do

no when he says he loves me its not friendship love. See i was joking and i'm the one first put him on that site and then i asked him to remove it so he did but then create new one. I don't know if he create to find out what he can get, or he was angry with me or he is interested in meeting others


since he invested 3 years in his previous relationship and it ended because of his gf cheating he says to me he needs more time. He is type of person who thinks he knows everything, has a lot ego etc

I asked him to give me a password to his dating ad he ref

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