I met a guy on line some months ago, and he asked to stay in touch with him. We began via e-mail and started to IM about 3 months ago. During this period of time, he's asked me a few quite personal questions, and I answered him. He's told me some things about himself but refuses to answer my questions similiar to the ones he asked me. Seems to me he wants to open me up but doesn't want to open himself up to me. To me this is unfair AND weird. This is NOT the usual way to make friends, is it? If he does NOT intend to befriend me, why does he want me to stay in touch and to answer his questions? But then why is this a one-way street? Do you think he'll eventually open up to me? Do you think he's still trying to sort me out before deciding if he wants to open up? I really hope he will open up to me because that's how I see friendship should be. Please tell me what you think of this situation and how I can help him to open up to me. Your input is greatly appreciated.
2006-09-04
01:57:13
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