Tell me often that you love me,Through your talk,your actions and your gesturesDon't assume that i know it.I may show signs of embarrassment and even deny that i need it. Do it anyway. Compiment me often for job's well done and don't downgrade but reassure me when i fail.Don't take the many thing's i do for granted.Postive reinforcments and appreciation works toward making sure i repeat them.Let me know when you feel low or lonely or misunderstood.It will make me stronger to know i have the power to comfort you.Feelings unverblized can be destructive.Remember though I Love you ,I still can't always read your mindExpress joyous thoughts and feelings.They bring virtality to our relationship.It's wonderful to celebrate, non birthdays,personal Valentines day's.Give gifts of love with out reason and hear you verbalize your happiness.When you respond to me so i feel special ,it will make up for all those during the day who passed me up and did not even see me.Don't invalidate my being by telling me that what i see or feel is insignificant or not real. If i see it and feel it for me it's my experiance and therefore imporant and real.Listen to me without Judgement or preconception.Being heard ,like being seen is vital. If you truley see me and hear me as i am at that moment is is a continued affirmation of my being as we help each other to change.Touch me ,Hold me,Hug me, My physical self is revitalized by loving non verbal communication.
2006-12-01
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