i don't really mind if he's wearing women's clothes for fun or once in a while but he's recently getting really into it and honestly it's starting to bother me because i don't really feel comfortable with that. i'd like to be supportive and accepting but it simply feels weird...when i try to hint that to him subtly he'd get defensive and says he's just exploring his feminine side and believes he's a woman trapped inside a man's body, but then it'd make him a "lesbian" because he likes female; and criticize me for not being mentally free enough.
AND he's been going to gay clubs and surrounding himself with transexual people...he assures me that he's not turning gay but he likes them and likes crossdressing. i believe him but then is there anything i can say or do to find a balance between his and my wants?
i've just read this http://ourworld.compuserve.com/homepages/cathytg/help3.htm and what do you think about this?
2007-12-16
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