These are the circumstances:
1) You meet this dashingly fine young man, with a slightly feminine appeal to him.
2) He, already looking slightly feminine, blows kisses to people and speaks in a feminine way (i.e. saying things like "like, OMG" or something)
3) He doesn't flirt with anyone seriously, and you may or may not be interested in him... but he seems gay.
4) You can't tell if he's interested in you (female) or not, or just men, because he, again, does not flirt with anyone. or even mention his status.
5) So... now the facts: you think he may be strictly gay, but are not sure. He's feminine, but he might just be metro or something.
So you want to ask if he's gay to be sure if you are reading the right signals and so you won't make him uncomfortable by flirting if he's not interested in women at all... so is it acceptable to blatantly ask if he's interested in men?
I'm not sure. I wouldn't ask outright, but it'd be a whole lot easier to avoid awkwardness after.
2006-09-04
00:47:28
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender