I called him earlier today to ask if he would do chicken on the grill. He said sounds good. So he comes home, I leave the 2 boys with him (ages 4 and 15 mths) take the 3 girls to karate (ages 15, 13, and 11). I come home and he is irritated. The house was a mess and he blames me. I am here with the boys all day, the girls come home and it is utter chaos. Normally on karate nights, I have all the kids fed and we go and he doesn't have to do a whole lot. I am irritated because he had the nerve to complain about the 3 loads of folded clothes on the bed and the dirt from where the baby got in the plant. I had not had a chance to put away the clothes or clean the dirt. I didn't even get to eat today. Am I wrong to be irritated? I know he works hard all day but so do I. I try to have everything neat and tidy when he comes home but usually it does not work out that way. Five kids is a lot to deal with.
2007-05-03
14:15:10
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