My mother and sister are in NC, and I am in TX. My sister says my mother's health is going downhill, and I spend a lot of time wondering and worrying. I could get on a plane and go see her now, but if I do, I won't be able to afford to go back when she passes. My sister will need me to lean on to help make funeral arrangements, and so I can't tell her that she has to do it alone. On the other hand, if I wait til she passes, then I will have missed seeing her while she's still alive.
I'm feeling so much guilt and sadness right now........it's not fair that I have to make such a choice.........
2007-01-03
01:34:40
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