i started drinking , im 15 and some girls ive kinda ben knowing have started drinking and i kinda want to hook up with one of them , should i invite them over and drink with her (to loosen her) or what should i do
2007-10-09 19:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by greg t 1 in Food & Drink ➔ Entertaining
i said this wrong, i dont want to have sex with her , i dont even want to really make out with her yet, i just, want to have some fun , im i turn 16 within a month also, and almost everyone here drinks , i never thought it was that bad to drink at this age
2007-10-10 10:35:46 · update #1
This is a joke, right?
Just in case you're serious, I think hooking up while drunk is a terrible idea at any age. Are you ready to be a daddy? Because it's a lot harder to think clearly and control your emotions when you're drunk and horny. Little things like birth control might slip your mind.
Not to mention that there's some kid in Georgia who's sitting in jail right now because he had sex with a teen aged girl, even though he was also a teen. He got charged with statutory rape. Supplying alcohol to the girl is perhaps the easiest way to be accused of rape. According to the law, a person can't consent to sex when they're totally drunk or drugged out. If she's not used to drinking, one or two glasses of something could wipe out her ability to think straight.
Listen to the adults this time. They've been around this block before.
2007-10-09 19:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey your not old enough for one thing. And to invite a girl over to drink with the intentions of "loosening Her Up" is just asking for problems that your are not obviously ready to take if you have to come on here and ask the world for advise. I think maybe you should ask your mom and dad if you can take the girl to the movies for out for Ice Cream and do it the old fashioned way. This way you don't have her big brother want to come and kick your butt!
2007-10-10 02:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by kuel_lady_di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't even be thinking about drinking or hooking up with someone at your age. If you do decide to get her drunk to loosen her up to have sex with you she may regret it when she sobers up and never speak to you again and possibly tell her friends what you did just to have sex with her then you have a bad reputation and no one will want to have anything to do with you . And if you just so happen to get her pregnant your in a world of trouble and I don't think your ready to be a father at your age.
2007-10-09 19:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, be careful you are very young. You wouldn't want to be caught up in some type of scandal. Especially if something goes wrong she doesn't like. You wouldn't want to be brought up on some type of sexual assault charge. All that needs to be proven is that you gave her alcohol to "loosen her up" and you are labeled a sexual predator the rest of your life. Try getting into a decent college with that on your record. Unless you want to be working in a factory the rest of your life I would reconsider this.
2007-10-10 03:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tara C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To everyone so far that answered, and honestly this is so common. Kids at HS party it up all the time underage. It's really dumb, but reality.
Dude, find something better to do. It's only cool till you're in juvie with no "friends". Start killin those brain cells every weekend, that's smart.
2007-10-09 19:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by santa klaus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking at your age is a really bad idea. Getting involved with people who drink at that age is a really bad idea.
Be smarter than that.
2007-10-09 19:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by barbara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I drank occasionally at your age, but I was more mature and didn't do it to get laid. My advice to you is to hold off on drinking until you are mature enough to realize getting a girl drunk is NOT the way to get laid. Grow Up!
2007-10-09 21:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by Allison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to drink in order to hook up with one of the girls. just be yourself and make other alternatives aside from drinking. believe me, its not even worth it if you drink and
there's nothing you can do about it.
2007-10-09 21:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 15 years old..way toooooo young to be thinking of drinking..do u wanna have the person thats buying you beer end up in jail?? Cause that'll happen..and your too early to think about loosing girls up too...if I was your mother id lock you up in the room and ground you.
2007-10-09 19:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Kratz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not drink, unless you want to end up as a recovering alcoholic lke me
2007-10-09 19:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by John J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋