Then you have a postive test in 2007 ? And your spouse still said they haven't done anything to give it to you ? would you beleive them after all this? After all i was told by dr. that the ODDS are against him I know! And there is more of a chance that he is still lying and most likely will never tell the truth!! and will keep doing it , is what the dr. said !! So what would you do? Even if the odds are aginst your mate? meaning there would be a slight chance somewere that he didn't do anything? Very slight though is what i mean !! I don't know how to get him to confess anything to this either?He keeps to the same that he is innocent!!? any advice? just wondering what others would say thats all!!!
2007-06-05 17:14:51 · 3 answers · asked by monkeymomma46 5 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
By teh way, the dr also said, that most likely he would be negative and that would not mean or prove that my test was wrong!! Because it is different testing a male! sense they can only swap the hole at the head, and a female is swaped inside ! he said the male has it in the body as were they couldn't get a swab like they can on a female! If you understand this? so him being neg. doesn't mean anything he siad! he just needs to take the medicne he said!
2007-06-05 17:40:02 · update #1
if you didn't do anything on the outside most likely he did and that's how you got it.
2007-06-05 17:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by tralin0904 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The odds are against him, but i knew a case where that actually happened. Doctors usually will treat the spouse without a test, but he demanded it anyway. It turns out that he didn't have it. That means that she had a false positive, so it's not out of the question.
Tests are designed to have more false positives than false negatives. It's better to falsely diagnose an STD and treat it. If a test gave a false negative, then the disease would go untreated and do more damage.
Ultimately, I think you know your husband, if you can't give him the benefit of the doubt... then there's probably more going on in the relationship than if he cheated or not.
2007-06-05 17:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by vihs4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have an STD then he has an STD so get him to the doc and get him tested. It is not a matter of getting him to confess it is a matter of getting him to the doc to get tested and treated. Once at the docs office you can discuss your concerns with the doc as to where either one of you could have gotten this from . He will either have to lie to the doc too right in front of both of you or fess up.
2007-06-05 17:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋