2007-04-12 10:41:59 · 18 answers · asked by JESSICA H 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Be honest,up front and just ell him. Otherwise you'll just keep infecting each other...and possibly other people.
2007-04-12 10:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by iraq51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's a rather simple thing to do. Though it depends on how your relationship. I would go about it to my partner by telling them what next step I'd like the relationship to go to, if it hasn't already. Also do tell them that you will get checked for STD's. Getting checked for STD's at your local clinic is a normal, healthy and responsible thing to do. Just keep it calm and casual, if you're serious about it, he'll see that and treat the matter the same way. Cheers for being mature in a relationship.
2007-04-12 10:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by Manny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tell him you value yourself more than anything and although you don't believe he may have any kind of std, you would like him to be checked so that you feel more secure being with him. If he takes it as a negative he does not respect you... then you get to move on to the next person who will!
2007-04-12 10:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by imissrascal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him "You need to get checked". There will most definitely be questions from him, and you need to answer them. STDs ain't no joke- he may get pissed at first, but in the long run, the sooner he gets tested the better.
2007-04-12 10:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by TooMuch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, this is a tough one.
The best thing to do is to contact the person and say the following, "[Name], I found out that I have contracted [insert STD]."
Then depending on the situation:
You should also tell him the circumstances, to the best of your ability, of how you contracted the STD. This might mean you may have to tell him that you have cheated on him, this might mean that he cheated on you, this could mean a lot of things.
2007-04-12 10:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Henry W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him with all the stds that are spread it possible that he may have something and not know maybe from a previous partner its possible that both of you could and then offer to take one with him so he does not feel singled out. also if you are sexually active you should have one every 6 months
2007-04-12 18:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by sab20052005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to PLAY, then you need to take responsibility. How would you like it if it was him who didn't tell you? And just kept putting it off because he didn't know how to tell you? Wouldn't you be more ticked off that he waited to tell you (if he told you at all and you just didn't find out when you started getting symptoms)???
2007-04-12 10:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you need to get checked. U be the boss girl.
2007-04-12 10:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just say it. There's no pretty way of putting it. You have the right to know that both of you are safe.
E.g. "Hey babe, you dont have any std's right? "
2007-04-12 10:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by 456lily456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just tell him that you both need to go get tested. you would want him to tell you if it was the other way around.
2007-04-12 10:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by steff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋