My parents didn't use condom when having sex for the first time so should I do the same if I'm married?

Question

What is the percentage of risks of getting pregnant if don't use condom? Can I trust my partner if he's healthy?

Answer 1

Wow. This makes no sense. Would you MARRY someone you don't trust? Look at your post.

Answer 2

When you are married, you can or dont have to use a condom. Just because you use them while married doesnt mean you dont trust your partner, its just another way of Birth control. You dont want to get pregnant and prefer not to take the pill, condom is a way to do that. But if you dont use any type of protection (pill, condom, etc) you alway carry the risk of getting pregnant if you are not ready to yet. There are several methods there you dont have to use any form of birth control but those are few and far between as far as preventing pregnancy.

Also, if your parents didnt use a condom when they were first married, either they didnt mind if they got pregnant (a wanted pregnancy) or they used the method where they knew they couldnt until they were ready.

Answer 3

I would think you guys would have already talked about having kids and future plans like that if your married. This is a big decision you both should make together. Really it's not up to others to answer that. If you don't want to have kids than you should use condoms or get on birth control. Other than that, your taking a huge chance! Not using anything will definately not help your situation.

Answer 4

If you want a baby don't use condom.

% chance of getting pregnant depends if you or your partner has a womb, is fertile and is healthy.

If you don't know if you can't trust to have a healthy partner, chances are you can't.

Would recommend you not bring any more children into the world. Definitely use a condom.

Answer 5

Well if you want to have a baby and you are financially and emotionally ready for a baby then of course you wouldn't use a condom. If you don't want a baby just yet you need to take birth control pill and use condoms. I would not trust your partner if you just met him. You cannot tell if someone has an STD just by looks. Have a nice day.

Pablo

Answer 6

The only way to be sure someone is healthy is if theyve had tests. In your parents day there was probably a lot less promiscuity and stds around so maybe it was ok for them.
If you dont want a baby, then use protection. It is too big a risk to take otherwise

Answer 7

As for the health of you and your partner, maybe you should go and get checked for any STD's. This way each of you will know you are safe. It depends on your cycle when you will get pregnant or not. Your fertile time is usuallty 28 days after your last period begins, with a window of a day less, and a day more. So for 3 days you'll be fertile.

Answer 8

If you don't take care, you'll get pregnant. If you're even remotely considering getting pregnant, it's a good idea for you and your partner to have a checkup first, not only because of STD's but also to detect any medical conditions which may affect the baby.

Answer 9

If you dont use any conraceptives there is a strong chance of you getting pregant very quickly. It all depends on the way you feel about it. Probably best to wait a while and just enjoy each other if you are both young and the body clock is not ticking away

Answer 10

The risk is too big, unless you are wanting to get pregnant. Just remember that whoever your parner has slept with, you will be sleeping with them too. If you are considering this maybe you and your partner should go get tested together for STDs, AIDs, etc.

Answer 11

Unprotected sex equals a very high chance of pregnancy. If you want a child, dont use a condom. If a child is what you both want then use a condom. Simple. No mystery.