answer number four?

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yeah i might start using condoms or lube just to see if it helps.
but the things is my paren't don't know i have sex, and i don't want em to know, so that's why i can't see a doctor, they would find out about it somehow. so you don't think it's anything to worry about, i mean when it's not rough i am fine =D

but if it is nothing to worry about then i don't want to go to the doctor, trust me my mum would know somehting was up! i mean it is only woth rough sex so that must be what is causing it......

Answer 1

You said that you are 16. By federal law the parents don't have to know anything. The doctor has to keep it confidential. All you have to is tell the parents is that you are having some itching and stuff. With talking with your mother about that then she might want to take you to the doctor. Some female don't feel confortable to have there parents look at you when you naked so indicated to the doctor that you would not like to have the mother come in. My first pap I went to they asked me if I would like to have my mother in. This is the time I lost it as well. So don't be worried about it. Your mother will forget. Time will move on and everthing will be okay. I promise. Since you are over 15 the pap can be done with out your mother. This is true.