to have unprotected sex or not?

Question

I had an encounter (vaginal sex with a condom) with an escort, since then i am filled with anxiety. After 28 days i took PCR HIV, PCR chlamydia/gonnorhea, herpes igm, hepatitis B blood test, syphyllis. All came out negative. Is it ok to have unprotected sex with my new girl friend? If not how long should i wait to have unprotected sex.

Answer 1

The tests are a good thing, and the recommendation to wait six months is a good one.

Now, regarding unprotected sex with a new GF...do you know the results of *HER* tests? Are you willing to accept that risk? People have sex with many other people. Unprotected, you are not having sex with her, you are having sex with *EVERYONE* she has had sex with...do you know *THEIR* test results?

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Answer 2

You can come up clean now and six months from now and think all is great and you don't need condoms. But if your friend is a professional escort and is sexually active with other guys, she can contract a STD at any time and pass it along to you.

The only reason to have unprotected sex is to have children. Pick only a date who would make a good mate. Do you want this person to be the mother of your children?

Answer 3

I think for HIV it's typical to wait 6 mos after possible exposure to see if it shows up. It can show up later than that, but generally you're considered "clean" if it's not positive by that point.

Do some research yourself on each of those diseases and see what you find re: how long before they typically show up in a blood test.

Give some thought in the future to how important an orgasm is to you. Was it worth the stress and anxiety you are going through now and will for some future time?

Learn the lesson.

Answer 4

sturdy: you have the two been talking. you have the two agreed on what occurs if birth control fails. Questions: have you ever the two been examined and given a sparkling bill of wellbeing? Does she strictly be conscious her contraceptive dosage recurring and take it on the comparable time daily? Are you the two keen to temporarily flow back to condoms for a cycle if she misses a dose? have you ever the two EXPLICITLY agreed to be monogamous or to apply condoms with the different companions? Are you 2 open and trusting sufficient to somewhat communicate any mess united statesinside the monogamy contract without it being a dating-ending disaster? Does she actively dislike infants and show a truthful quantity of desire to no longer have any? in case you answer no to any of those, you're exposing your self to attainable. i'm extreme approximately this. See the J. intercourse Res precis suitable decrease than. in basic terms fifty two% of couples had the two companions explicitly agreeing to be monogamous, and 29% of those youthful couples who did have breached it.

Answer 5

if you used a condom and used it properly (it didn't break), you don't have much to worry about. Just crabs and warts, which suck, but can be treated and easily cured. Its good to get tested twice a year, but as long as you wear your raincoat, you won't get HIV or anything serious. As far as the new girlfriend, you both should get tested and wait six months, if you want to know for sure.

Answer 6

Is this a GF or an escort?

You seem so paranoid I think it would be better, even for your mental state, to use a condom till you (and your GF) feel you have had enough time together that you BOTH feel safe.

Answer 7

3-6 months but if you used a condom you should be okay....however if you care for new gf you should know for sure to protect her...it takes 3-6 months for HIV to show up

Answer 8

Def stick to condoms since you are in a "new relationship" Also, make sure she is tested too. You never know these days. Also, good job on getting tested!

Answer 9

No. You should have unprotected sex unless you want a baby. Period, no doubt about it. Use a condom.

Answer 10

I vote that you not have unprotected sex until you are married.