and u have kids that adore u and cry if u leave the house for five mn. what should u do to make them accept that one day u will leave them for ever? and how to die in peace without worrying about their destiny?
2006-09-28 23:17:43 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Heart Diseases
First thing you need to do is deal with the childrens seperation anxiety by getting them accustomed to the fact that there will be times when you have to leave them for awhile. I am assuming that they are quite young because of this and can say that this is a normal process for all young children. You have to be honest with them about your health problems but do not scare them with too much information and upset them by crying ect.. Be very calm and matter of fact. Most importantly , enlist the aid of the people closest to you especially those who will be the childrens guardians and caretakers in the future in an effort to give the children a strong sense of security and love that will help them when the time comes. I hope this helps some and pray that you will be here for as long as possible.
2006-09-28 23:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by S G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what? This is what life is all about-- learning to have faith and trust. You can't make your kids accept. The more you can relax and trust, the better they will be at it. Your kids will die and no one knows when. They could die in an accident before you. Their kids will also die. This is what life is all about. When you are born, that is a death sentence.
Maybe this site can help your heart. If not click on Natural Healing. Also click on Rx for Happiness to help you to have more trust. Not trusting that you will live forevever or a long time but that everything will work out for the best. Now St Francis of Assisi had no fear or worries. He just had loads of faith and trust. He said "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can change and the wisdom to know the difference." Another saying is "Even in your darkest hour, I do not abandon you."
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2006-09-28 23:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would depend on their ages, but I would make sure you continue to show them your unconditional love, and do your best as a Mom to live each day to the fullest for all of you. I know it's scary at times(I have heart failure), but at some point we accept our situation and try to find and create happiness in everything we do. Your love for them will last forever, and that bond you make with them now will leave no doubt in their heads how much you cared for them. Good Luck and God Bless You
2006-09-29 05:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by jerry4_fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kids had no problems.You may be over reacted.When they play computer games ,with friends,watching their favourite TV programme ,where are you?Die in peace ? You must know how to live in peace first.Know what is life all about.
2006-09-29 02:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jason Koh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can die at any time. Disease, accident, natural calamities and crime are not known in advance.
2006-09-29 01:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hide the truth,keep them envolved daily; meds, lifestyle, any symtems problems associated with desease,final request.What will be,will be, can not be stopped,but can with dignity. sorry for what may happen,,you are not alone
2006-09-28 23:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by coffyadict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act normal. No one is guaranteed tomorrow
2006-09-28 23:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by mary texas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋