2006-09-10 23:57:34 · 28 answers · asked by KC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
some of the answers truly demonstrate that across cultures honesty is valued adn despite flaws, people want to be truthful and monogamous, at least, till it lasts
2006-09-11 18:56:50 · update #1
I think the biggest thing is you have to know when you're most vulnerable. If for instance you're attracted to a co-worker or what not make sure you're not totally alone with this person. If it's emotional and say you go online and chat or whatever you need to really take a step back and analize the situation. Ask yourself "why am I about to log on? Am I bored? Am I lonely" find out about you. Marriage is CONSTANT work. The moment you get comfortable and things are great is the moment satan will try to work is magic. Best thing to do is keep your guard up and keep your head on swivel and check in with your spouse from time to time. "Are we okay?" sit and talk one on one. Oh and dating you gotta date. Especially if you have little ones. Don't get caught up in it being all about the kids like some many people do. It was you two before the kids. (have no idea if you have kids but I'm sure some people reading this may)
Good luck
2006-09-11 01:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not very easy, of course. Given the temptations galore, right? But some funda's to be remebered on this count are: aids, which result from multiple partnerships and trauma of divorce on children and the self,as observed in the fastliving , rash living countries will give you a sound footing, right? By the way, not everyone is in KANK, are they?
2006-09-11 07:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very very hard and the same time very easy. the kind of life u live determine the kind of emotional feelings u'll have for ur spouse. when u are living a rough life, u'll find out that pple will keep coming into ur life both invited and uninvited tempting u. but If u take ur spouse as the one and only that has ever exist in ur world no matter what, it will be easy because u've killed urself in adoring and worshiping him or her as ur god.
2006-09-11 07:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Peace G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extremely easy because as I have stated before only a$$es would cheat on their wife. I've been married for 13 years and it gets easier every year to stay faithful in all ways.
2006-09-11 07:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by greenlantern1999 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love your spouse with all your heart and etc, then it's super easy to stay on the right path. It takes both of you working to keep this going though.
2006-09-11 07:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's much easier to remain physically faithful to my husband, because physical actions somehow seem more serious than emotional responses -- whether or not it is, in actuality, true. Interesting question.
2006-09-11 07:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by mtnlady 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What ever you do... DO NOT listen to a women on this matter only reason is that there point of view is going to be different then a guys. But I won't give you an answer on your question cuz I am a dog when it comes down to it!
2006-09-11 07:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by ~Init2winit~ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well i think that it is not that difficult coz if u luv ur spouce then u will not find it so hard . the only way toremain physically and emotionally attached to ur spouce is by understanding her in all ways.i do agree that there are temtations but remember that all that glitters is not gold.
2006-09-11 08:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe it is not easy, but if you think of your vows, your love for your spouse, you will find that theres no difficulty in being faithful to your spouse. the main reason why you chose her, and she chose you is that because you want to belong only to each other and be contented with your love for each other. temptations are always around us, but just try to pray and never give in to your carnal urges, then you'll not find it difficult to become faithful.
2006-09-11 07:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When I had a spouse it was very easy
2006-09-11 07:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by aawatson3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋