Gender Studies - October 2006

I met this guy online January 2005 dated for a few months and I broke up with him because he drinks heavily and becomes aggressive when he drinks.

Since around April 2005, I have tried to get rid of him. I gave him a few chances here and there and after that and he would drink again and the same thing would repeat.

Since, he has moved to NJ (he was from NY state when I met him), and now lives 5 minutes from my home!

He leaves me notes every single day on my car saying I hurt him and that he loves me. EVERY SINGLE DAY. Every time I leave to go out in the morning, there will be a note when I return on my fence. He obviously is watching my every move.

He is extremely jealous of my sister and accuses me of going to single clubs and bars when I am with her. Says that we are having sex with men when we go out. He knows every time she comes over.

He used to call my house all day long. I finally resolved this with a phone block, but he occasionally gets to pay phones and still continues to call.

I am afraid to get a restraining order since this may trigger a worse response.

I did call the police last month and told them there is a stalker at my home. What really hurts is, (I was told this by the stalker) the cop NEVER asked for his drivers license, insurance & registration (which he doesn't have anymore) and failed to notice the expired inspection sticker in the window. The stalker was reeking with vodka and the cop didn't even give him a DWI. Then the cop tells me they checked him out, which was a lie!

So I do not feel safe with the police.

What do I do?

2006-10-01 04:52:30 · 21 answers · asked by Cassy 2

alot of them wind up in the ocean and get washed up on shore?

2006-10-01 03:17:07 · 14 answers · asked by kardea 4