honestly?? when it comes to it you'll just forget everything and it will all just come to you. theres not really an art to it. imitate what you see in movies... this is why i always cup his face in my hands. but make sure its a person that you really like so that when you kiss you don't only feel it on your lips but everywhere. =] good luck hun
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2007-12-27 21:46:46
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answered by ? 7
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Sam, you just turn your head a little to the left or right and then move your heads together and touch your lips. After a few of those, you can do the same with your head turnned the other way , like left side then right side. LOL
Next is a little tounge. you kiss, then let your lips part and let your tounge tough his lips, just a little and very softly.
next is hands around neck or back or shoulders, they can move up and down the back if you like the feeling your getting touching and kissing him.
The next stage is making out. more kissing and touching and over the clothes and body parts. he touches you and you him. this about it for this stage and can go on for hours or mns. or days and weeks and months.
The next stage is opening up the clothes with your hands on his and his on your. then one layer at a time. then to flesh.
The is stage two and can go to getting both of you off just fine.
Next stage is touching, kissing with clothes out of the way or coming off. laying next to each other or side by side sitting or standing.
The last stage is a home run for both, your out of your clothes and touching each other and have gotten each other off a few times and are relax and ready to take this to the final level of making love.
First time is most of the time, girl on back and guy on top and between her legs and raised up to sides or knees bent. useing birth control of two or more types, the male is inserted into the female slowly a inch at a time so that her body can get use to this new feeling. some pain and bleeding may or may not happen. The after relaxing agin you rock your hips up and down and he moves in and out tell the rest happens on its own. The rest and enjoy the moment.
Change condoms and go again, slowly and with more kissing and feeling and touching and time you will get use to it and movment will come on t own, and so will all of the good feeling that go with it with your ready to go that far with the right person.
Remember to practice safe and sane sex at all times. It only takes once and you have a 18 year change of life. Birth control should be talked about and you should get on the pill if your going to become sexually active. More infomation is on line for you both to read too.
enjoy and always be safe please.
2007-12-27 21:54:50
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answered by John M 6
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First of all, make sure you are in a comfortable place and you are actually comfortable with the guy you want to kiss. Then lean closer to him, look into his eyes and lips and hopefully he should realise you want to kiss him and he should reciprocate.
Just lean in slowly and then just kiss him lightly on the lips, and then look into his eyes and whatever happens next should come naturally! Slowly and sweetly is nice first time but when you're ready, you could try putting a bit of tongue into it to spice it up =)
2007-12-27 21:48:08
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answered by Pinky 2
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If you want to kiss someone for the first time, the best time to do it is when you are alone with him/her and not when you are being pressurized into it by anyone else.
You could start by putting your arms around him/her. Then look at him/her hopefully they will be looking back at your face and then gently give them a small "peck" kiss on the lips. If he/she likes this ten they will hopefully react back with more kisses for you. Just be gentle with him/her and move your lips gently against there lips. Avoid clashing your teeth and its not necessary for you to put your tongue in there mouth unless you want to. If you do just rub his/her tongue with yours and don't lick there lips. I hope that this helps. Remember to take your time. If you decide that you want tings to go further than kissing you can do so gradually.. Remember to take your time and not to rush these things.
2007-12-27 21:45:02
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answered by The sex Dr 4
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the first time is so awkward you'll probably just end up slobbering on yourselves. here's the trick. take it slow. most people rush into a kiss with so much passion or feeling that you end up with their spit on your eye brows. take it slow and kiss as if thats the only way you could communicate. you don't just blurt out 80 words a second when you talk do you? good luck..
2007-12-27 21:43:26
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answered by rockstar101481 1
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you can ask this question a thousand times but when it comes down to it, you'll just get nervous and excited and totally forget everything you've ever heard about how you should kiss. kissing for the first time will just come naturally.
2007-12-27 21:40:22
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answered by Anonymous
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The best thing that I can tell you is to just use your instinct and go with the flow. Sex, like anything else and we learn through trial and error. Oh yeah, relax and have fun.
2007-12-27 21:42:04
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answered by rebornpheonix 6
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itl just come naturally wen u do it, and after the first time ul realise its not that big of a deal, and ul only get beter the more u do it! jst imitate how u c people do it in movies and that haha
2007-12-27 21:41:18
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answered by Barry L 2
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Just stay cool and don't get nervous. imagine that you are kissing your mom for the best gift received from her. How will you kiss. think like that and it will be alright.
Just relax. Love yourself more than others.
2007-12-27 21:44:21
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answered by BooBoo 3
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watch how its done in the movies. American Pie, or movies like that. Slow and gentle, no tongue. just lips. If you are inexperienced, maybe the boy isn't. If you are both inexperienced, it can be a real fun learning experience..
2007-12-27 21:42:42
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answered by Anonymous
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