he says he cares about me but i dont really know about him
2007-12-27 21:30:05 · 11 answers · asked by horsegal95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Our sex drives become much higher.
The more sex you have the more you want.
And at the same time he "covers up" another affair.
It's true
2007-12-27 21:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by "Not today, Zurg!" 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit down with him and talk. Tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. Relationships have to have honest and open communication in order to have a good relationship. What is your gut instinct?
Tell him what you will and won't have in a relationship. If he feels he wants to cheat on you, then he needs to respect you and tell you he wants to end the relationship between you first. I demand respect in that way. I have been cheated on so many times before, that is one of the things I said when I met a guy. It will hurt either way if I find out, but to me it hurt worse to find out by being there when the other girl showed up or finding clues like notes laying out and them still denying it. I respect them more when they can honestly tell me they didn't want to date just me and wanted to date others. At least I knew where I stood.
Best wishes to you and Happy New Year.
2007-12-28 05:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he leave the room when someone calls, not let you see his phone for fear you may see texts and calls from or to someone, not let you see any of his emails, or anythign he does online (like online profiles, myspace messages etc.) not want to go out with you to clubs and stuff, dressing more nicely, caring more about his appearance and wanting ot lose weight all of sudden, seem more distant, sending a lot of time away, making excuses to not send time with you, working more or longer( and you are not sure if he really is at work). etc,,,, these can be 'signs' but don't always mean he is cheating.
2007-12-28 05:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by what were you expecting? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find it through his eyes. Look direct to his eyes when you tell him i love you or when he says i love you.Observe his character and compare to how he is acting at present and the past when you started dating is there anything weird. Try tell him you are cheating on me i found it out on my own i even gat prove to that and see if he is gonna panic or freak.Good luck
2007-12-28 05:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by Pink lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends only have a limited obligation, unless you have a real, solid committment. You really can't trust most of them.
If you've been having any kind of sex, the relationship is worthless anyway, and you can rest assured he'll betray you in one way or another.
2007-12-28 05:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
u don't really know about him...!?
u just have to trust him or not. where he's going, the "excuses he's giving", any suspicious behaviour... smells on him, marks maybe lol
there are too many ways, his phone, his my space or facebook or wtvr if he has an account.. ask friends, classmates, colleagues...
2007-12-28 05:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if your GUT INSTINCT is telling you he is.
We do not pay enough attention to our Gut Instinct. Pay attention, it is probably true if you suspect it.
Of course you could be paranoid, but pay attention to the clues.
2007-12-28 05:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must be a caring boyfriend
2007-12-28 05:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by paymore r 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
his character towards you can also give you the answer to your question.
2007-12-28 05:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by firstdiamond88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him
2007-12-28 05:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋