My sister(22yrs old) is so stubborn. She wakes uplate, hate to do household jobs, even to just fix her bed! She just watch TV and Chat the whole day. Dont have a job, sleep late. I do all that is there to be done just to avoid my father getting angry with us, and even so my father is still so mad at her. Even if my father do all the talking the whole day, give orders to her and what she should do, she still just do nothing. I dont know what to do with her. I get irritated with her also. PLease, HELP!!!
2007-12-27 21:21:34 · 5 answers · asked by freya vida 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nope, my sister don't do drugs,smoke nor drink alcohol, She is just that stubborn.
2007-12-27 21:34:51 · update #1
I have good answer for that .It really work for my bad sister too.Just take a vacation two or three weeks far away from home.That will teach her good lesson. Good luck try it .!!!!!!
2007-12-27 21:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres only one thing that you could do to help yourself. You take care of you and better your own self. Its not up to you to save your sister from her own lazy self distruction. Remember people are alot like digging for gold, which is good, You literally have to shouvel through tons and tons of dirt, which is the bad, before you find a single ounze of gold. But you can't look at the dirt, you have to look at the gold, and when you see it, nurture it and watch it grow. Be a goodfinder and your heart will find peace. Best wishes
2007-12-27 21:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for your father is set a date as to when she needs to have a job, and a date for when she needs to start helping with the bills. or move out.
2007-12-27 21:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she drink or do drugs? I used to be exactly like that when I was smoking weed and drinking almost everyday. You and your dad need to put your foot down and tell her to do something with her life or else...that's what my family said to me and I changed
2007-12-27 21:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by puffer fish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to have a discussion....if she does not work how about her future....just move away and leave her alone in that house...this is for her own good to realise a true life and make her to search money by her own way....Don't help her to pay whatever...let her to be a responsible woman...
2007-12-27 21:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋