Her locker wasn't far from mine. How do I avoid this type of thing?
Looking at pornography is oftern a stepping-stone to commiting sexual sins. James 1:14, 15.
2007-12-27 21:08:56 · 30 answers · asked by Chris 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Jen ~ I am not a retard and you mocking my beliefs
See Genesis 6:2
Jude 6,7.
2007-12-27 21:20:55 · update #1
I love a bit of sexual sinning Michelle 27:12, 07
2007-12-27 21:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure exactly where you work, but the whole naked calendar girls and your example pretty much do not exist anymore...especially with all the political correctness and not so current new laws and regulations regarding sexual discrimination in the workplace, etc.
So in the event that this is an actual problem for you, here are some solutions:
1. talk to her and ask her to take it down. let her know she is offending you, as part of the red light, green light, yellow light requires you as the offended to do so.
2. if she does not take it down, report her. know though, that if you do this, she can lose her job and there may be an investigation and/or criminal charges filed which may require you to go to court since you are the 'victim.'
3. just don't look (I like this one best, but I am not very PC and tend to be more old fashioned...and while I believe in God and am a Christian, I tend to not force my beliefs onto others. I guess the question can also arise as to why do you feel compelled to look into her locker when you pass? What's inside is her business, not yours after all.
4. if not looking is hard for you, and you don't want to get this person into trouble, since afterall, God has already forgiven her for this action, you can always find work somewhere else--the most passive response, but kind of a ridiculous one.
There you have it...what's it gonna be?
2007-12-28 05:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by Christine M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No looking at naked men is not a stepping stone to committing sins unless your job is a nun.Even then most of the religious high Archy is involved in sexual activities of some form or other .
Get a life ,get real and stop looking at other peoples private spaces or one day you may get a real shock!
GOOD POINT CAE..WHY HAVE YOU A PICTURE OF NEWCASTLE BROWN ALE AS YOUR AVIATOR?OH I see you don't look at rude pic's or do sin but you get smashed every night of the week to drown your sorrows?Stop quoting the bible have a pint instead!
2007-12-28 05:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by sallysue 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This can be considered a "hostile work environment" which is an indirect form of sexual harassment. If you feel direct confrontation with the individual would make your work environment more stressful then tell your superiors quietly and confidentially. If it is not gone within two days then go to your human resources manager or employee relations manager. Any sexual harassment issues are big deals to companies and they will want to get rid of it fast because the end results can be expensive lawsuits.
2007-12-28 05:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Who's got my back? 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Here in the U.S., the law would definitely consider that sexual harassment. It has already been well established by the courts that displaying posters or photos of a sexual nature in the workplace (regardless of gender) constitutes such harassment. If it offends you and she won't take it down, you could complain to her boss and he would have to do something about it or risk a lawsuit which he would lose. You could also just ask yourself whether its really such a big deal.
2007-12-28 05:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why were you peering into her locker?
And I think you have a cheek 'casting the first stone' against sin when your avatar is a Newcastle Brown Ale label.
2007-12-28 06:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fundamentalist beliefs are causing so much damage.
Avoid 'this type of thing' by not looking.
You have the God given freedom not to look and allow it to cause arousal.
The sin is in giving in to the arousal TOO EASILY TOO OFTEN.
2007-12-28 09:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by kayamat_ka_din 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just give in Chris and feast your eyes!!!
As long as it's only the one little loOK and you control your fantasies, I'm sure it will be ok.
Where is this locker? I think I better investigate it for you first to erm..Make sure it's safe.:0)
2007-12-28 06:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Monkey ! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a friggin life. Adam and Eve were naked in the garden of eden. The naked body is a wonderful thing and as for porn, bring it on, it has been around since time began so only prudes and idiots like you find it shocking. Grow up.
2007-12-28 05:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
A picture of a naked man is not pornography, believe me.
You've been sadly misled if that's what you think.
What were you doing looking into her locker anyway you nosy little Christian you? Don't look, don't get offended. It's quite simple really.
2007-12-28 05:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by Andrea H 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋