is he sweet but im not so sure he says he really cares about me
2007-12-27 21:08:12 · 10 answers · asked by horsegal95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A rule for life: Never do anything you don't want to do, particularly when it goes against your inner instincts and morals. You don't want to, you don't do it. When it comes to sexual relationships, make wise choices, and never go to bed with someone just because they want to. Your needs and wishes are important. Just tell him you aren't ready for that kind of thing. Good luck.
2007-12-27 21:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this boyfriend older than you? Have you really set your limits on sexual behavior? Why isn't he respecting your boundaries??? A guy shows true love when he values the girl's wishes. Use your common sense; it will take you a long way; don't ignore your God-given intuition. If you sense something is "off" then get out of the situation. Don't put yourself in a situation that will cause you to compromise your decision. Going all the way does not prove your love--- sex won't make him yours and a baby won't make him stay. THINK AHEAD instead of getting caught up in the emotions of the moment. If he pressured me one more time, I'd break off with him. (1 in 3 girls get pg b/f they turn 20 yrs. old). Don't play with fire, hon; too much at risk.
2007-12-28 06:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a great girl. You know your own mind, and you've decided what feels right for you. You're trusting and loving, but not so much so that you're blind to the risk of you and your boyfriend getting carried away.
Tell him that you don't want to go beyond kissing, and that because you like him so much, his asking you to do more makes you feel really uncomfortable. Tell him you want to go on kissing, but you respect him, so you trust him not to try and go any further.
Stick to that, and if he makes it difficult for you or tries to persuade you to do anything you don't feel comfortable about, finish with him.
That may sound harsh, but if he really likes you and cares for you, he'll do what you ask and respect the limits you set. Trust your instincts - someone with as much intelligence and self-respect as you will know what's right for her.
2007-12-28 05:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Helen M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe He Has Another Girl Not You! I Mean His Not Inlove If I say You Must Say To Him That He Likes You If He Say Yes
Say Proove It Then Say What you Want Then You Too Are Not Broke Again!
2007-12-28 05:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jann Aron Benelli C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really don't want to then state very firmly that it's not on until you feel you are ready to! If he's so caring about you then he would'nt dream of pressuring you,you said you're not so sure he cares about you,then i guess you are answering your own question,don't go there,not until you are 100% ready to,with someone you are sure cares about you.
2007-12-28 05:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to go any further than kissing, just tell him no. If he gets angry then that is his problem. It is your body and you can choose whether or not you want to sleep with him. If he values you in anyway, he will wait. If he walks, then he never was yours to begin with. In that case what did you lose?
2007-12-28 05:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking this... you're not ready for anything more. Just tell him you want to wait and see how the relationship goes before your commit yourself to such a major decision.
2007-12-28 05:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by Just Tryin' to Help 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not even try it. If he realy loves you, he will really wait, the Bible saya that love is patient.
2007-12-28 05:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Babe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your should always listen to your gut. dont do anything that you dont want to do. if he was such a great guy, he would respect your wishes.
2007-12-28 05:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sally B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you, he would understand if you'e not yet ready to do more. :))
2007-12-28 05:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by starsarehott 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋