2007-12-27 20:36:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say yes...cuz everyone else is saying no....and...because u gotta fight for what you want...if his relationship with his girl gonna crash...might as well crash a little bit early
2007-12-27 20:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are a lot of deciding factors. One, how old are you? Two, how long has he had his girlfriend? Three, does he love her? Four, has he ever told you he has feelings for you or shown them?
I'm in love with my boyfriend. Quite frankly, he's perfect, and although we're in a long-distance relationship, I hear constantly from other girls that live there that they're in love with him or want to be with him. Quite frankly, it's irritating. He loves me very much and I trust him with my whole heart, but most of these girls get over it. For example, one of his and my best friends was in love with him for a while. Eventually, she got over it. The best part about her was that she did NOT show very often that she was, or even hint at it. Now, she has her own boyfriend that she loves with her whole heart as well, despite once having feelings for mine. Honestly, it causes a lot of tension. I wouldn't tell him unless you believe he has feelings for you that he'll return. I also would honestly sit down and ask all the questions about love. Would you do ANYTHING for him? Would you choose him over family? Would you give up your pet? Would you change all your goals in life just to be with him? Think of the extremes. True love is rare. You would be better off because it hurts if you don't to just find someone who will love you for who you are with all of himself. I got lucky when I found mine and he convinced me that guys like that DO exist. You should find someone who loves YOU, who wants to be with YOU. Telling this guy that you're in love with him could damage your relationship--seriously damage it. It could make things extremely awkward. If you believe the feelings are reciprocated, however? Go for it. If you think it'll make you feel better? Go for it. Just beware the potential consequences.
2007-12-27 20:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kacie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it fairly is a annoying one. even although she nevertheless loves you she could now no longer prefer to be with you reason curiously such as you do no longer have confidence her. yet on the othe hand in case you back off and be supportive she could come back. i think of that she needs some respiratory area. Why have you ever no longer spoken to her in a week? Honostly i actually think of that all and sundry she needs is have confidence, area and to tutor her which you would be able to attend to each and every thing it fairly is giong on. My boyfriend and that i broke up two times and now we are married. now and back it takes time and if no longer then you will locate somebody else and picture of this as a gaining know-how of journey. good success!!
2016-11-25 22:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by abigail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yepp...........go ahead....
first thing be properly vocal,dont eat up words,tel him that u knw he has a GF, and u r interested in him..
give his Girlfriend a good competition....show him that u care more...u r the best,thr is no one better than u on this earth.....
got me?
Do what ur heart says.....sometimes a suppressed desire is all that bothers us for the rest of our life.........u r not spoiling his life by telling him ur feelings.........its natural....be a brave gal.
"its not often that u lose someone by saying I love u,
more often u lose someone by fearing to say i love u"
thats the logic nobody understands..........
2007-12-27 20:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know what's up by actions first, then words. By that I mean come on to him and see what happens. Tell him how you feel in the morning.
2007-12-27 20:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by John L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has the right to know....maybe he has feelings for you too...however don't be a home wrecker....you can be creative on how you go about this...you know....without causing anyone to get hurt.....Good Luck Buddy....and always remember he is not the only guy in the world you know....
2007-12-27 20:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ...
just explain how you feel about him..
tell him you understand that he has someone else but you wanted to tell him cause it has been bugging you that he didn't know how you feel...
you will only be telling him what he mihgt have already known..
if he is that good a friend he would have already picked up on how you feel...
2007-12-27 20:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by cheree m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your love towards him wins over the guilty of being a predatory, then go for it.
Love is not around often.
2007-12-27 20:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no wait ! do u want to ruin there lifes . so just chill . may be he takes u as a friend. a friend that takes ur helps when he is in trouble. you should love him who loves u. allways remember it.
2007-12-27 20:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by bitts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him feel but be careful to his girlfriend she might caught you and be caring to him but you can also tell him but without his girlfriend
2007-12-27 20:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to cause a whole lot of trouble, then tell him. Otherwise, keep it to yourself. He's not available to you and you must respect that.
2007-12-27 20:38:27 · answer #11 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋