my guy friend?

Question

i have the best guy friend in the world i tell him everything he help me get together with the best boyfriend ever but all that changed when he told me he liked me last year. so i broke up with my boyfriend cause he was pressureing me too and i couldn't get out of it. So now i just started 8th grade and he has a girlfriend but she moves away so its just me ,him and my friend. he told me from the beginning of 8th grade that he didn't like me. so i am single and so is he lately he is starting to get rough with me like hugging me and touching me. he is really strong and what happen is that he was really mad so me and my friend wanted to see what was up so i pulled back his hood and he grabed my arm and it left a print. and when i tell him i like someone he goes straight to that person and tell them to stay way from me i feel like he is my mom when he gets mad when i talk about the guy i like
what do i do
i need help
PS i went to the consoular and she just talk to him?
and i am scared

Answer 1

Your guy friend isn't far from being a little boy, even though he is looking like a young man. If he is hurting you, you need to have some help to keep him away from you, if that is what you want.

Did you tell your parents? Did you tell the police? His grabbing you may have been in rough play, or it may be that his heart is hurting because of how things are going between you. But physical violence is never okay, and your personal safety is the most important thing.

Tell your parents and see if they can help you out. The counselor had to talk to him, but you need to go back to the counselor and see what you can do to stay safe. Tell her/him that you feel afraid for your safety.

And as for this friend being a boyfriend, avoid him at all costs. Nothing is worth getting involved with a guy like this. He is possessive, physically inappropriate, and sounds like he's wildly confused at this point in his life.

Good luck!

Answer 2

OH MY gosh girl are serious dont let somebody like that take over you dont let that get to you girl i would take a step are you sure he's your friend he is way to controlling over you and he should have the right to do that to you is he crazy or something?
he is very abusesive i would stop tlking to him i were u and he's wayy to controlling and he's jjust ur friend just cause he likes you that doesnt mean he could treat u the way he wants to he's nobody and dont let him get the best of you!
good luckk girl=]
make a good choice

Answer 3

He is abusing you. Try your best to stay away from him; if you are at school or somewhere you know he's going to be, don't be alone. You were right to talk to the counselor; make sure he/she knows he hurt you physically. You should also talk to an adult you trust for advice; older people have experience and can offer good advice.

Answer 4

Maybe you could talk to someone higher up than the counselor, if you are scared then that counselor shouldn't be taking it so lightly. This guy is being controlling and he isn't treating you like a real friend.

Answer 5

The best idea is to confront him, not aggresivley, just walk up to him and say " look I know we're friends but I feel like you are to controlling of me" Just let him know how you feel. And go from there.

If he takes it well then good if not try and talk to an adult or teacher.

Answer 6

I really do think that this situation NEEDS to be brough forth to your school counselor immediately! Do not keep yourself in fear of what he will do if you do seek help. This guy sounds like a control freak and if you allow it, things will only get worse! I am sorry you are having to deal with someone like this at such a young age. Please seek help!

Answer 7

woh ur friends a freak! if he touches u again go tell z cops and u could probabaly get one of those things in court where z guy has to stay lik 50 meters away from u or he goes to jail or something ! i dont quite know wat happens but just remember, theres always z cops!

Answer 8

Let him know that you like him and cant be with him... tell him in a smoother way and avoid him slowly without letting him notice that... Dont discuss infront of him about other guys...

Answer 9

ah, jeesh.
8th grade?
you're now "single?"
and "scared?"
tell yer MOM! tell yer DAD!
if you have an older brother, tell HIM!

dude that left a mark on you needs an ***-whoopin'
(or at least a big scare).

Answer 10

what kinda friend treats u like that dam i tell him 2 leave me alone and tell my mom and dad and I'll also get buff friends both male and female.