what are the biggest turn offs, mistakes a guy can do during sex? plez answer so we can become "enlightened"

Answer 1

Doing the things they don't want you to do..such as forcing them into things.

Or they can do something stupid like fart or make odd noises.

Answer 2

Using the wrong girl's name, for one.
Assuming the woman has had an orgasm.
Assuming the woman is done.
Asking her "how was it?"
Not taking enough time with foreplay.
Forgetting that LIFE is foreplay.
Not talking afterwards, turning off all the charm and the communication that you used to get the sex in the first place.
Not calling the DAY, like the MORNING after.
Forgetting to be a gentleman.
Changing how you treat her after sex has become normal in your relationship.
Taking her for granted.
Know that sex is, for most women, started many hours or days before the sex act, and how she values the act itself may be based on how she is treated for hours or days after the act. Sex for men is generally simple. For women, it is emotional, complex, and should not be done with a woman that you think you like a lot unless you are committed to continuing the relationship with a lot of care and committment.
Sex = emotional intimacy for women, and many women can take it or leave it, and would gladly trade it for hugs and cuddling.
Congratulations to you for wanting to learn.

Answer 3

The worst thing you can do in the bed is be selfish. She/he can't be the only ones "doing their job". As far as mistakes go, I'm sure I made a lot when I was younger. Most girls will just smile and think it's cute then tell you how they like it or show you how to do it. Just don't get with a stick in the mud that expects you to be perfect and you'll be okay. Seriously. ^.^

Answer 4

There was a poll on this before and most people (and I agree with this) find the biggest turn off to be selfishness during sex (self pleasure)

Answer 5

Calling the girl by a different name, no foreplay, asking to do something 'weird', being too rough, being too quick (you know what I mean) or taking too friggin' long (ouch), having bad breath or body odour, and last but not least falling asleep straight after. I'm sure I missed a few, but that should be enough to start you off.

Answer 6

He can't just be having sex for himself. He has to make sure the other one involved is having as much fun and getting as much pleasure out of it as well.
Dont straight out ask for sex, it just comes naturally especially if you've been together for awhile.
Jack off before you have sex so you'll actually last longer.

Answer 7

in all risk in the event that they are overly furry interior the southern areas and characteristic no longer showered it's going to make me no longer opt to pass around the section. in the event that they fart or burp for the duration of intercourse , it may additionally turn me off. no longer prepared to cooperate to be playful with attempting new issues is likewise a killer. oh oh, and ultimately in the event that they call you the incorrect call... thats an computerized BOOT out of the mattress room

Answer 8

Not treating a female nice all of the time. It is usually not what they do in bed that bothers women. It is how they treat them before they get there. Make them feel special all of the time, instead of just when you want sex.

Answer 9

Do not forget about pleasing her... don't 'get yours' and then roll over and fall asleep! Concentrate on pleasing her, and she should do the same for you. Also, watch how you rub her...be gentle but apply necessary pressure. Talk to her during sex.

Answer 10

i would not want a guy to stare... but would hate it if a guy closed his eyes for an extended period of time during sex, it would lead me to believe that he is thinking about someone/something else.