Everyone seems to think that their life is horrible and worse than the next person. They get all emotional over nothing and will call someone a drama queen and say they're not but then go and do the same thing the "drama queen" did. They go on and on about how their life is so bad because of some pidilly thing.
Will it stay like this forever or do most adults grow out of this and learn to just get over it?
Cause a lot of my friends have amazing lives but they continously act like they're so horrible?
2007-12-27 17:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
poeple just want attention and pity when they see that others are getting it. hopefully they'll mature soon and realize that their actions are preventing those who really need help from getting it. i'm so sick of the whole "omg, my life is worse than yours" fad....
2007-12-27 18:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, if only people would open up to what's around them and see the beauty in everything!! Why would you go through life acting negative and depressed when you could be happy, loving and optimistic? Honestly, there is no reason why anybody should think their life is horrible. Sure, bad things might happen, but something good comes out of *everything* that occurs in your life, and life is all about gaining the most positive effect out of every situation. And for anybody who does think that, all they have to do is come to the realisation that the only person who has the ability to change things in their life is *themself.* Nobody else can make that decision but YOU.
As far as whether people grow out of their self-depressive moods or not, in the grand scheme of things I don't believe it really matters. Are you happy with your life? Do you become the "drama queen" when a minor situation in life arises? Are you the person that you want to be or do you want to change aspects of yourself? All that matters is YOU!!
If you are happy with your life then you are on the right track. If you can help somebody else see the happiness in their lives then you are on an even better track. For those who refuse to change, just keep loving them as best you can and remain positive that they really do have the ability within themselves to snap out of it and see the beauty.
2007-12-28 02:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that young people are "drama queens" in many cases these days. I honestly don't know what the problem is, could be a general level of immaturity and no one is pointing it out to them at home. In fact they may be encouraged to behave this way by parents who cater to every whim, and never teach them to deal with problems.
Unfortunately the next generation will grow up being very self absorbed and see their lives as more important than anything else, plus they will want to "have it their way".
2007-12-28 02:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look
the emo thing is in
either that or people are just looking for attention
no offence to any "emo people"
but i think there is no use of being emo
i dont really use the word emo
but its a word that everyone can relate to
if none of this solve this problem
lol
then they are just retards!!!!
seriously
who would waste time in being a drama queen
just go home or hangout with friends!
2007-12-28 02:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by メロン 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It never changes. Just the problems change. What you have to understand though is that to each person, their problem is huge. Even if its not to you, it is to them. Until they learn to deal with them, they will always be extreme.
2007-12-28 02:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysmyself 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness!
That gets on my nerves!
I think it will stay like that forever ..
There are a small portion of people that aren't like that though.
2007-12-28 02:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Eula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone changes...most teens today are spoiled...some aren't....once they receive life changing responsibility most grow up
2007-12-28 02:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋