my family arranged a marriage w/ this man 18 y.o. than me. he told me he loved me and we dated for a while. my feelings for him grew so strong that i burned with love and desire for him. he promised me he would b back and never came to me. in addition, he cancelled the marriage and never explain y he refused to marry me. i had spent weeks preparing my future with him. now he is gone. i cant seem to find peace. my whole world has collapsed. how can i deal with this? can anyone help me? i had high fever and he was my 1st love. y did he reject me? there is no second that goes by i dont think bout him. how can i get him out of my head? how can i go on? i dont want to go on, i have no desire to do anythin. my family is not even talkin about it, its like a disgrace. im so ashamed and hurt...will i be whole again? people say im beautiful and gorgeous, but men seem to only like to play with me.....
2007-12-27 16:59:18 · 2 answers · asked by prettyinpink i 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are unnecessarily getting emotional for a person who is unreliable,dishonest and a liar.You should not accept him now even if he returns and apologizes.As the matters turned out, they are not due to your faults.
It looks that there was some negative aspect in this person,which came to the knowledge of your family members.He escaped from your life to avoid a confrontation . Your family members are not pursuing him any more as they know he is not suitable for you.You should forget him and have patience. Anyway ,the age difference was too much between you two.
2007-12-27 17:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to feel depressed get this man off your mind. Im sure someday soon you'll find the man thats for you.
2007-12-28 07:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cobra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋