she has a bf and I really have to kiss her, I don't want to make things weird, but my approach is to tell her to close her eyes and I'll do it, but I don't want them to break up? we used to go out but broke up before we were gonna kiss, which we planned to do. What are your thoughts, I'm still gonna do it but is there a way I won't make a fool of myself?
2007-12-27 16:54:47 · 9 answers · asked by Cool Like a Summer Breeze 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're really good friends and she never gets mad, even when some people are really mean to her, but I'm not trying to be mean
2007-12-27 17:07:56 · update #1
Well really there is no way of not making it weird if she does not know the meaning of what you are giving her. I understand what you are trying to so and why you want to give her that, but maybe if the boyfriend finds out he will not be too happy understand. He will think that you are trying to make a move on her or something. It is society dude. Now nothing can be seen as innocent without having an ulterior motive. I would say go for it if you are sure that she will not make a big deal but understand the meaning of it. If you think she will not then do not do it or else things will be weird.
Good Luck on whatever you choose.
2007-12-27 17:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by EvilScientist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anyway you can do it without making a fool of yourself. She has moved on and is with someone else. You should find someone else to and give this kiss to them. It would definitely make things weird between the 2 of you, and her boyfriend will probably not be to happy about it either.
2007-12-27 17:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by bluemonarch17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being very selfish!!! Leave the girl alone. She will be upset, and rightly so. If you did that to me, I would slap your face so hard, and yell for help. that is so unfair to her and to her boyfriend. You are going to make a fool of yourself for sure. She does not want your kiss for her gift!!
2007-12-27 17:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You've broken up and she's moved on, she doesn't want a kiss from you. You're likely to get slapped by her and/or beaten by her boyfriend.
And don't kid yourself. You ARE trying to break her and the bf up and get her back. But it's NOT going to work.
2007-12-27 17:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sausage Mahoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're setting up for creating a mess. Either they break up and you're back together, either you make a fool of yourself and you lose her friendship.
That's tricky. I don't really think there's a way this could work.
2007-12-27 16:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by Gasgano 55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll not only make a fool out of yourself but her boyfriend might have something to say about it.
2007-12-27 17:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's such a good idea now, man. You might start something that will get in between the two of them. Maybe you should just get her something thoughtful.
2007-12-27 16:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by stealth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah.. go into a dark alleyway.. naw jkjk hmm you should ask her bf first eh?
2007-12-27 16:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by Michael D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it under mistletoe best excuse, we were standing under mistletoe we had to kiss
2007-12-27 16:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by LatterDaySaint and loving it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋