alright, so im on vacation, at my dads place without my mom. i came out here to see him. the OTHER reason im out here is because i wanted a break from my mom.since about a month before i left which was the 19th, me and my mom ATLEAST got into one fight a day, or a HUGE argument over certain things. So about 2 days before my flight, she took me shopping, she was pissing me off and pulling me over and yelling and sHiTttT which made me madder, so we leave the mall and shes literally screaming ! and i mean screaming ! in the parking lot ! and she threw me to the ground because i was "walking away" which rele i was walking 5 feet in front of her so we get in the car and shes cussing and then before i got out she was leaving with her boyfriend and shes like "bye, i love" and i cut her off and slammed the door in her f ace ! then at the airport she was calling my friends trashy and wHoreSs and im like wtf?so i was yelling at her so when we boarded i walked out on her not saying a dayum thing
2007-12-27 16:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and so far, i dont want ANYTHING to do with her! not one, i know im sounding a bit much, but thats not even HALF the story, she points out the bad stuff about everything i do ! she never says anything good, she says im wasting her time. and she cleans up after EVERYONE in the house we live with which is her,her boyfriend and her boyfriend's son EXCEPT me, I DONT GET ALONG WITH ANY OF THEM AT ALL ! and i dont know what im gonna do when i go back
2007-12-27 16:18:50 · update #1
sometimes i feal like running away .. but i dont do it .. i have TRIED to commit suicide, yes, i have cut my wrist twice, not major, but i still have a scar, i am not emo ! whats so ever, but yea. when i get rele pissed off i make a huge mess in my room and throw things around and listen to music cause it rele calms me down gahh please take me seriously ? i need some help .. please ?
2007-12-27 16:21:15 · update #2
im sorry, i know this a lot, but uhm she has also been doing the same thing online .. yea .. i thought this was a break ?
2007-12-27 16:24:50 · update #3
well, that is a very very difficult situation for you. it is not easy for her neither but she decided for herself. not you, you had to accept the situation which was not your fault. you have all the right to blame and scream. but if there is anything really helps your heart please dont be blameful. she loves you. it is neither easy for her. though she is a grownup, it is the same messy life for her at the moment. this is life with which we learn to be kind and sympathetic.
if you does not like her boyfriend and his son, tell her and tell her why. she will know that she is responsible for you in her decision. and let her agree that without your content she will dont have a go, so that you can feel safe. let her know that you will play fair because you also cares about her. the life is now for the both of you, right? you have the right to leave. we all do. but we should always learn to live together. same for your mother and you. and she is your mother. dont leave her alone.
2007-12-27 16:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by hwlwlf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad about the problems you are having. If he refuses to do anything about it, talk to a counselor at school. Your mother should not be treating you with such disrespect, even though I am sure that you are a rebellious teenager, as most are. Throwing you down like that is abuse, and no child should have to suffer through that.
2007-12-28 00:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well i feel wat ur feelin cuz me nd my mums alwayz argue bout sumthin shes alwayz naggin me if i do sumthim right or sumthin wrong wat i do i sream back at her and we fight to i mean really fight which i beat the living crap out of her ok wat i do is just walk out of the house go to my man house nd relax my self or if not i go to my aunt house nd play wit baby nd then i come home like 2 or 3 hours of the arguement we had and the after we get a long for a couple of mintues then we argue again it goes back and fourth.. i suggest when ya argue just tell her i'll never regret sayin dis but i hate you nd leave go to ur friends house or just live wit ur dad
2007-12-28 00:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by baby_gal4life2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A break will hopefully work wonders.
It'll give you both time to cool down.
2007-12-28 00:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by emmalayx3 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh lil miss, you always play the victim. I've known your mother tooo long to know that you are the hero in this saga you allege. She never acted that way too me. She needed a break from you.
LOVE,
DADDY
2007-12-28 00:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by ricosuarve 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
find help for youself !! You are an unstable person caused by your familly habit..Save your life child !!
2007-12-28 00:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋