I realized that my boyfriend isn't into porn as much as other guys and has stopped alot for me, but even when we watch movies and he calls a girl hot I get really jealous and call him out on being stupid or something when its really my problem. I dont know how to fix it.
2007-12-27 14:43:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you go ahead and do the same... make him feel what you're feeling.
2007-12-27 14:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Love2loveYa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have low self esteem and do not feel that your bf really loves you, how could he if he calls other girls hot?
Well get over it. He is with you not them.
You can remember that and not get so mad.
You will never be as hot as those porn stars and he will never feel love if he keeps
watching porn. Lust is all he knows.
2007-12-27 14:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only solution seems to become a porn star, then hell love you just the same!!
just kidding, all guys like porn, but personally i would rather have the real thing, if this guy aint giving it to you anymore, talk to him about it.
or just call me.
2007-12-27 14:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by wildbill_52280 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl....i know exactly what you're going through, i've been with my guy for 2 years, that part still hasn't changed.....i told him it bothered me and he wrote me something like this " babe, yeah, those girls are hot but i don't want someone to **** and leave, i want someone i can hold, and love, and be proud to have, and that's you....those women could never be that person" so maybe like every guy he thinks alot of girls are hot but to him, that's it, there's no extra feelings no lusting after her, or anything like that, he's devoted to you no matter what he says about another girl, just roll your eyes, smile and forget about it....
2007-12-27 14:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be satisfied and enjoy beauty as much as he does. If another girl is hot that does not mean he doesn't love you.
2007-12-27 14:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by dude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cant hook up with a porn star hes hooking up with you... dont worry about it its still his fantasy and wouldnt you rather him do that than cheat on you?
and hes calling a girl HOT thats it one he will never meet youare overreacting!sorry if thats harsh
2007-12-27 14:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, that's a topic. you're disenchanted with something your boyfriend does, and he has advised you that he won't provide up doing it. the question will become - are you able to learn how to stay with it, or is it in simple terms too frightening to you? you're actually not on my own. I certainly have examine many articles approximately human beings of the two sexes that felt an identical way. some even went as some distance to call it dishonest. it grew to become into no longer approximately their self-worth, yet approximately their relationship and how they felt porn impacted it. you're fifty p.c. of the relationship, and so your emotions are significant. i don't be attentive to the way you broached the concern with your guy, yet do you think of you ought to refer to him in a calm way, and permit him be attentive to precisely the way you experience? his reaction sounds extremely protective, so it must be a greater suitable theory to in elementary terms communicate with reference to the way you experience - no longer blaming him, in simple terms letting him be attentive to which you're disenchanted and harm. he ought to have the skill to take heed to it greater suitable then. persons are fairly divided while it includes porn, and it must be no longer person-friendly again to an settlement on it. if, interior the top, you in simple terms can not attain a compromise, you ought to reassess the relationship. i think of that while you're low on self-worth listening to which you're fairly ought to no longer relatively sink in. and it relatively does no longer have a bearing on your question, except your guy tells you which you're gruesome. that's relatively useful to inspect treatment for the self-worth subject. interior the top, the respond is that there are adult males available who do no longer use porn. yet you're in a relationship with one that does. are you able to salvage the relationship, or is it too hurtful to you to objective and settle for it, or to objective to locate a compromise?
2016-10-20 03:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can watch porn together
2007-12-27 14:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by n0o0o0dlez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pff dont worry that is normal with dudes..
2007-12-27 14:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by dont..trust..me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋