Could you respect and love a woman like this?

Question

I am not hurt or annoyed when my male significant others sleep with other women. In fact, I encourage them to have another girlfriend on the side unless they don't want to. Several men have left because of this, which is quite odd since a couple of them have went on to cheat on the women they were with (I guess it's not fun if it isn't a secret). I myself am not a cheater and only stay with one man, however, I also am aware that men are not like women in this sense. A man can cheat without being in love with the other woman or loving me any less. Is it possible to find a man that will understand and love me as I am? What do you think?

Answer 1

No. Because if youre encouraging them to sleep with others then they will believe you are also, even if you claim you arent.

Answer 2

I think much of your opinions on the subject of cheating are ridiculously one-sided in favor of men, and I think you ought to really ask yourself why that is. Yes, it is very possible for you to find someone to love and accept you as you are. Since that's the case, don't offer them carte blanche to cheat..you don't deserve that. No one does.

Answer 3

You have issues. Low self esteem, or no self respect i dont know what, OR you dont really like the guys you are with or you have been hurt before by them? They probably feel like you don't care about them.

Answer 4

What ever makes you happy sweetheart

Answer 5

Well maybe, but why would you WANT them to cheat on you in the first place?

Answer 6

Usually a girl doesnt "let" another girl have her boyfriend....lol.......trust goes right out the door when that sort of stuff happens anyways.