hey y'all ...im a 17-yr-old female who has never had a boyfriend...why? I don't know what im doing wrong.. im not at all ugly......is it because im very tall? ...blonde hair and blue eyes are out of style?? :S
2007-12-27 14:27:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe you should put yourself out there. Personally, I'm struggling with guys right now. Guys will look at me and smile, but I guess I'm too shy and turn them off. **sigh** BTW, I don't mean put yourself out there like a hooker, I mean, be confident in yourself.
2007-12-27 14:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
nah, not at all. you have to be more outgoing. I'm a 15 year old guy. I don't want a girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, I'm straight and you seem very hot to me, but to me it's not worth the agrivation, as if I don't deal with enough agrivation. I'm the kind of guy who just wants cut to the catch if you get my drift. I don't have the patience for all that mushy bf/gf stuff, but I've been asked out a few times, and thats what I did, but for different purposes. the more outgoing, the better, and remember, there's no such rule written in stone that the guy has to ask the girl out. It can be the other way around and that's what I mean by being more outgoing. the girls that asked me out had nice personalities, good looks, pretty much anything you would want, and if it wasn't for my lifestyle I would've gone out with them. So just get out there
2007-12-27 14:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by lamborghini518 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be your personality but I tend to believe that personality doesn't really seem to matter all that much. Your problem may be your height if you are too tall. You may intimidate guys who are shorter than you. My advice would be to hang out with the biggest guys, both height and overall size. Blonde Hair, blue eyes is definately not out of style. The bf will be coming soon, Best of Luck.
2007-12-27 14:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by KennyHaHa2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , I do think people don't have boyfriends or girlfriends because they are ugly because everyone has something to offer , Maybe alot of the guys that see you are too nervous or embarrased to talk to you , Try making friends with more guys (espically the ones you like ) with the non-flirting way and it might turn in to something more.
2007-12-27 14:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Brandon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're asking us...it would seem that your personality is a little off-putting...being so desperate and all. I'm 17 and have never had a boyfriend but have never felt incomplete because of it. Btw, I'm asian, if that makes a difference.
2007-12-27 14:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not, but if someone didn't make it into your life it is because they were not meant to be there. But don't be afraid to go for it and take a chance. There are some guys who would definetly be interested in you. oh. and ps, blue eyes and blonde hair are still in. ; )
2007-12-27 14:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not sociable. Plus, wait till you get in College or get a job where there are many your age. You're going to need bug spray to keep them off of you. Give it time, there is nothing wrong with you. It will happen.
2007-12-27 14:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I highly doubt that it is because of you're physical features. All you need to do is hang out with more guys, and get to make more friends with them.
Sooner or later, you'll end up with a boyfriend before you know it.
2007-12-27 14:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lopez7.vii 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys want to be taller than the girl and maybe you should dye your hair into a nice chestnut colour. You should start asking guys out.
2007-12-27 14:32:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22, only 5'5, brown eyes and naturally brown hair...I've never had a boyfriend...thats just the way of the world.
2007-12-27 14:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by brandyrn12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋