Im not in a wheel chair or missing limbs or anything majorly awkward to look at. about two years ago i had gotten into an accident and a few bad things happened i went blind in one eye i have a few small scars on my face but you have to be close to notice. I have plates in my head you cant tell unless i tell you doctors cant tell if i dont tell them. but i do have a rod in my leg and a good bit of pins threw out my body so usually im pretty unconfortable when i have been still or i am up and about for along time. The only thing if i would hold a picture up from two years ago is i gained 15 pounds its hard to run when you got a broken leg. so the question I used to not really have a problem at least gaining a conversation with a girl. I dont talk about my self unless answering a question and i dont stare. I also believe that if i want to meet a girl that i would get along with i should met them at a place i like ie coffee shop book store. What do i need to do now?
2007-12-27 13:40:39 · 17 answers · asked by kidindahat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont drink doesnt mix with medicine. and the sad but true i am a 27 year old punkrocker with a masters degree. hence book stores and coffee shops are some how fun now.
2007-12-27 13:59:40 · update #1
Go to a book store and complement a girl, then ask what book she's looking for. If she says nothing in particular recomend a book, or a CD. Get things going, ask about music, especially if they have it playing. Say you have to go, your late, and that you would like to get together sometime because she seemss tso easy to talk to. Get her number, or give yours. I think it will work.
2007-12-27 13:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mal777 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be willing to talk to women. If you can walk properly, then walk around a shopping mall and say "hi" or "hello" to every girl you see until you can do this 50 times in one day to get over your self-consciousness.
Someone once said, "you find chicks in places, where chicks feed their faces," so visiting coffee shops, snack shops and some restaurants might be a good place to start.
2007-12-27 13:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the things you describe as not having (you are not in a wheel chair, you are not missing limbs etc..)... many people who are blind, deaf, wheel chairs , otally disfigured from burns and accidents etc.. have a girl friend, a family and all kind of success....
I personally have a cousin who is blind and got marrried while blind.. hapily married for over 30 years
your problem is definetely not your disability, it is or your self esteem or something else bloking you.. you need to see somebody to help you who can see you, see from close where the problem is
2007-12-27 13:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could be more out going and initiated conversations. Saying you have pins in your legs might not be the best topic starter, try something about the book she is looking at if its a book store.
2007-12-27 13:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cruisin'=^_^=Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Clueless. With the recent rejection, you might have lost some of the confidence you had before the accident. Stick to it. Don't be too pushy. Start a friendship first then see what happens.
2007-12-27 13:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by st3psp8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mini shows a mohawk and you like book stores and coffee shops. Then you may need to work on your image if this is the places you are looking.
2007-12-27 13:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have become self conscious about your disabilities and you may not be all that aware of it. You need to be confident and fun. Don't be bashful about yourself or your disability if they ask, but just pretend like it doesn't matter. Truth be told, if it doesn't matter to you it wont matter to them, especially because it's not a very blatant one.
Maybe losing those 15lbs will help you too, ever try picking up swimming? Lots of gyms are putting lap pools in now if you can't run.
2007-12-27 13:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some where you will find a girl or a girl will find you that will except you for who you are not by what you look like or by what happened to you.....i give you props though for going out and trying to find that special someone....I hope this helps and good luck finding a lucky lady... :)
2007-12-27 13:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there's anything wrong with you but I reckon its the girls who have the problem cause they cant see you for who you are. So I wouldn't stress if we're you. Just gain confidence in your self and you'll be fine.
2007-12-27 13:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be man. Get up and go to the bars and act like anyother man if you want a women. Women like to be knowest. They don't like having to chase after there men.
2007-12-27 13:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by joyce m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋