As long as both parties agree it's ok, I think it's fine.... Opinions, feelings?
2007-12-27 12:04:54 · 5 answers · asked by Alleshiea 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never said no commitment, I think doing it this way takes more commitment than staying away from people of the oposite sex all together... And comunication is definatly the key, if you involve the other person in who you are checking out etc... and they are ok with it then all good... No lying, just open honesty.....I think you guys missunderstood what I meant exactly I should have explained better... Thats ok though.
2007-12-27 12:46:10 · update #1
I agree as long as you
both are happy with it, no
need to try and make everyone
happy, cause it is not possible, as long as
you and your other half are happy then forget the rest.
best luck to you..............
2007-12-28 01:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Solitaire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Light flirting is one thing. But having a crush on someone that isn't your partner is opening the door to a "open" relationship arrangement. And to me that is not ok. Because I remember when I had crushes on people, my feelings were to be with that person and to have feelings like that while you are with someone you are "serious" with is totally putting your relationship in jeopardy. I think if both parties have agreed to something like this they should both sit down and have a very agreeable talk about why its ok to allow each other to be crushing on someone that isn't them. As I said light flirting is ok and even saying someone is attractive, but crushes are a real threat to any relationship. Especially when they are acted upon. Can't say it won't happen because usually one partner or other will get bold enough to ask that crush out or talk to that crush more, maybe even lie to them and say that the bf or gf is mean or frigid or doesn't do this or that for them or ignores them completely. Any lie they could use to help them cheat with this crush. So yea, I say crushes on others while in a supposedly serious relationship is a serious deal breaker for me. Especially if he wants to resort to doing the whole crush thing rather than talking to me about not being as into me as he said he is. Communication is key in relationships without that, you fall into all kinds of grey area traps you can't get out of.
2007-12-27 20:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it...look at my question...shite al..we are both frauds..lol..:) No your right as long as both parties agree x
2007-12-27 21:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Moral Kiosk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No!
"amour"
2007-12-28 05:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by ill zee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why be in a relationship when you can't committ????
2007-12-27 20:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋