As you all said I should gice guy one a chance and I already did.. But then it all just got too freaky.. I mean... he was sorta a gentlemen.. but I kinda hated it when someone asked me if I was going out with him.. I just wanted to tear him apart. So the next day I told him it was over. And then the next day he asked me out again.. I didn't reply to him. A few weeks later, he sent people over to ask me out about four times. I didn't reply to them. Then he came over and asked me out personally. I was shocked. I really wanted to say no but didn't want to hurt his feelings again. I didn't want to be with him. I was confused. I really need help. I didn't want to go out with someone I could not possibly love. It felt like hell to me that I was going out with him. I mean there was those few moments when he did something that I liked. What should I tell him??
2007-12-27 11:40:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be like "I'm sorry. I just don't think it'll work out the second time." or give him a different reason. Just be polite and concise.
2007-12-27 11:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have one of two options here:you can continue as things are and keep getting asked out(which I think you secretly enjoy), or you can end it in a more forceful manner.You say you kept not responding to all attempts he made to go out with you and you think this should have worked because you did not want to hurt his feelings.Do you believe a slow death is better than a quick one, that rejecting him multiple times is better.If you truly want to put an end to this, all you have to do is simply tell him thank you but I am not interested. If he refuses to abide by that request, then you can threaten him with legal measures.That is all you need to tell him.
2007-12-27 12:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't like him that way, and that you just want to be friends. obviously, if he likes you still, he's either REALLY into you, or he feels that you like him still a little bit. Be kind about it though, don't completely crush him or whatever, just pull him aside and say something like "let's just be friends" or if you don't wanna be friends with him, then just tell him you don't like him like that. it should all work out from there. if you tell him that, and make sure he knows it, he'll move on. Trust me, im a guy, i know this stuff ; )
2007-12-28 08:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by svivatson92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel about em why u dont want to be happily ever after so fast and the rumors are spreading but still be friends
2007-12-27 11:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a bit of a wimp gettin his m8z 2 com ova 4 him.
2007-12-27 11:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki xx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say out frankly what you have in mind straight on his face but politely. good luck.
2007-12-27 11:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by D.R.M.M's Fairplay's Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋