im going on my first date and he thinks i want to kiss him????????????????????????????????????????????????????

Question

what do i do i'm very scared that it won't go well

Answer 1

Don't over think. Go on the date, have a good time. When the time comes, if you want to kiss him or let him kiss you. Or if you don't then give him a hug or a handshake or a peck on the cheek depending on how you feel.

Answer 2

If you do all of the following, you'll do very well.

1. Keep legs crossed and closed.
2. Never kiss anyone, AIDS travels through body fluids like saliva.
3. Don't park in alleys or Lover's Lanes.
4. Make sure the car has a full tank of gasoline (oldest line guys use on girls -- oh man, we just ran out of gas. Oh, well, let's just sit here and talk. Hands begin to move into virgin territory.
5. Be home by 10 p.m.

If he really likes you he wouldn't mind putting up with those 5 have to's. If he just wants to dip his wick in your wax pot, oh well, you know what I mean. Guys will always try to do it. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Answer 3

Never kiss on a first date with anyone. If he tries to kiss you, tell him that you do not kiss on a first date. Wait until you are comfortable about it and want to do so, but NEVER do anything like that that you do not want to do. Stop worrying about it. Everything will be just fine, and I am sure that it will go great for you and you will have a blast!!!

Answer 4

This may be your first date AND your first kiss! How cool is that! Don't worry, if you don't want to kiss him...he'll get the hint (if he's a nice guy) and you won't have to. If you do want to kiss him, remember that moment because later in your life you'll be asked "who was your first kiss" and you can smile and tell the story.

Answer 5

Look if your comfortable with him go for it but if your unsure no one is telling you to kiss him so its cool some of my first dates some girls kissed and some girls didn't on the first date. Also on my first first date the moment led up into the first kiss because it was the fourth of July

Answer 6

Most if not all of us have had that same fear. Most of the time it is for nothing.

My advice, honesty. Tell him you are nervous, that is if deep down you want to kiss him too. Let him have to chance to say he's nervous to. He might be.

If you don't want to kiss him, then again tell him that, but in a way that says you are saving it up to be special.

Either way, don't allow yourself to feel rushed or pressured. If you are to kiss, start off slowly. After the first few seconds, it seems to take on a life of its own.

It's always overcoming the fear of uncertainty that takes the most amount of energy.

Answer 7

Have a good time and remember that if you kiss him or he kisses you it should only be because you both wanted to kiss not because he wanted you to. Sharing your feelings is a two-way street, if you don't want him to kiss you just tell him so.

Answer 8

Don't feel like you have to kiss someone because your going on a date. If you dont want to kiss him, then don't. Its not that big of a deal.

Answer 9

Put yourself in control of the date. He will do what you want to do and be grateful for it. And as for the kiss? Well, he'll be feeling lucky he even got a date if you play it right x

Answer 10

well, most first kisses are awkward, just keep your lips moist and slightly parted. don't try to "french" kiss. you'll be OK. if you don't want to kiss him, just turn your head and let his lips land on your cheeks, or keep him at arms length. when you get to the door, stick your hand out and shake his, or give him a quick hug. you might want to give your parents a heads up and tell them what time you'll be home, if you need someone to interfere, i'm sure they'll oblige. parents know what to do.